A lot of submissive people are Alpha Male's or Females . I don't think what you are describing is submission or synonymous with it but I definitely don't agree with abuse . I don't know where "silly sex games" comes from but it is not always restricted to sexual play , there is also a relationship and lifestyle that people partake in and it has zero to do with abuse . This post needs to be a bit clearer for me to understand exactly what sort of abuse you are referring to . If you are talking about domestic abuse or something similar this isn't submission , it's simply an abuser / aggressor taking advantage of a vulnerable or otherwise weaker person . In any case , abuse is wrong but I emphasize ABUSE and not what people may misinterpret to be abuse .
I am referring to people who let themselves be controlled and tolerate negative behavior by not doing anything to stop it, which will only encourage the person with negative behavior to get worse.
Sometimes it is necessary to stop someone before they get out of hand and it then becomes the fault of everyone involved.
I understand now , thank you for clarifying for me . I thought you were trying to describe something else but I completely agree that someone should take proactive measures . I think people see signs of abuse and control but choose to ignore it out of weak character or fear maybe ? I know every case can have it's own story but they should definitely stand up for themselves . The unfortunate reality is a lot of people don't , this is where things turn for the worst and sever abuse occurs and sometimes even death .
IIN I look down on submissive behavior.
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A lot of submissive people are Alpha Male's or Females . I don't think what you are describing is submission or synonymous with it but I definitely don't agree with abuse . I don't know where "silly sex games" comes from but it is not always restricted to sexual play , there is also a relationship and lifestyle that people partake in and it has zero to do with abuse . This post needs to be a bit clearer for me to understand exactly what sort of abuse you are referring to . If you are talking about domestic abuse or something similar this isn't submission , it's simply an abuser / aggressor taking advantage of a vulnerable or otherwise weaker person . In any case , abuse is wrong but I emphasize ABUSE and not what people may misinterpret to be abuse .
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I am referring to people who let themselves be controlled and tolerate negative behavior by not doing anything to stop it, which will only encourage the person with negative behavior to get worse.
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I understand now , thank you for clarifying for me . I thought you were trying to describe something else but I completely agree that someone should take proactive measures . I think people see signs of abuse and control but choose to ignore it out of weak character or fear maybe ? I know every case can have it's own story but they should definitely stand up for themselves . The unfortunate reality is a lot of people don't , this is where things turn for the worst and sever abuse occurs and sometimes even death .