My favorite "I encouraged her to get a girlfriend so she didn't need as much attention"
Tbh, sounds like you may have been more interested in the prospects having a girlfriend entailed - and less so in her as a partner and person.
Sounds like a sexual based relationship - many are. If that it what you seek, seek those who want the same - and you will find precisely what you look for.
I think the opposite might be true. Before our friendship evolved into a relationship I absoultly hated the concept of relationships but I tried it because I did really like her. It ended up being way to much for me and we broke up but are still good friends. She actually broke up with me because she felt we were incompatible. I have come to the conclusion I am unable to feel romantic love as well as some other feelings people have, but I am able to love people in a way that I care about them. I just have no distinction between different types of those emotions. I know it sounds arrogant but I do think my emotional processing is more evolved and that humans typically over think them and act illogical and neurotic for reasons I do not know. I would describe the way I process emotions as having thoughts that are either positive or negative and I act accordingly based off what I think is the best outcome.
IIN I liked when my girlfriend made out with other girls?
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My favorite "I encouraged her to get a girlfriend so she didn't need as much attention"
Tbh, sounds like you may have been more interested in the prospects having a girlfriend entailed - and less so in her as a partner and person.
Sounds like a sexual based relationship - many are. If that it what you seek, seek those who want the same - and you will find precisely what you look for.
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I think the opposite might be true. Before our friendship evolved into a relationship I absoultly hated the concept of relationships but I tried it because I did really like her. It ended up being way to much for me and we broke up but are still good friends. She actually broke up with me because she felt we were incompatible. I have come to the conclusion I am unable to feel romantic love as well as some other feelings people have, but I am able to love people in a way that I care about them. I just have no distinction between different types of those emotions. I know it sounds arrogant but I do think my emotional processing is more evolved and that humans typically over think them and act illogical and neurotic for reasons I do not know. I would describe the way I process emotions as having thoughts that are either positive or negative and I act accordingly based off what I think is the best outcome.