The usual personal duckling deal. You are afraid that by hooking up with someone who's as beautiful and attractive as you are you might lose him to someone more attractive than you or who just gives better head. You are craving for exclusivity, which you can only get by
hooking up with someone who's technically ugly and therefore should theoretically have more troubles getting laid. So he will feel more "yours".
You'd also happen to prove that you can have him anytime you want, thus raising your self esteem even more. You get jealous because you think: he shouldn't be talking to her, he should be talking to me! He should be talking to me! Because I am better than her! He would be your guaranteed dickering. At least that's what you wish he could become for you. Your safe dickering.
I am ashamed to admit that I would in fact enjoy the exclusivity, but is that not what we all want in a relationship? Sure, if I was with him I doubt he would ever betray me and I know he would appreciate me, but that is not what lures me in, although it is a "bonus" per say.
I have been thinking about him and his smile often and I get excited to see him but I realize these are just the signs of a silly crush. I want to get to know him to see if I actually like him, but I am afraid about what it is that will pull me in; whether it is the exclusivity factor or genuine feelings. The last thing I want to do is use him or hurt his feelings.
Is it normal i like the weird guy?
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The usual personal duckling deal. You are afraid that by hooking up with someone who's as beautiful and attractive as you are you might lose him to someone more attractive than you or who just gives better head. You are craving for exclusivity, which you can only get by
hooking up with someone who's technically ugly and therefore should theoretically have more troubles getting laid. So he will feel more "yours".
You'd also happen to prove that you can have him anytime you want, thus raising your self esteem even more. You get jealous because you think: he shouldn't be talking to her, he should be talking to me! He should be talking to me! Because I am better than her! He would be your guaranteed dickering. At least that's what you wish he could become for you. Your safe dickering.
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I am ashamed to admit that I would in fact enjoy the exclusivity, but is that not what we all want in a relationship? Sure, if I was with him I doubt he would ever betray me and I know he would appreciate me, but that is not what lures me in, although it is a "bonus" per say.
I have been thinking about him and his smile often and I get excited to see him but I realize these are just the signs of a silly crush. I want to get to know him to see if I actually like him, but I am afraid about what it is that will pull me in; whether it is the exclusivity factor or genuine feelings. The last thing I want to do is use him or hurt his feelings.