Is it normal i like people who makes me mad?

Maybe you like it because it gets you out of your shell, and you feel strong enough to say what you feel.

Do you mean more of an argument or more of a debate? 'Cause I love to debate topics, it gets me out of my shell too, that's why I find it interesting.

BTW pretty sure I could easily pick out the other post that you wrote and I responded to recently. People didn't vote for "normal" there either but that is because you are one of the special ones who is misunderstood by most people. You are likely an introvert and highly sensitive and intuitive. I wish more people were as you described yourself but it will never be. Like you, I cannot be manipulated so I totally get it, all of it.

Seriously healthy outlook and way to be in my opinion. Now consider it possible that some of what you are calling "arguments" are actually "debates" even if somewhat heated. So even if you get mad and become a bitch, I can't imagine that you find yourself always being right... So in effect this all winds up being a form of communication, learning, and mutual understanding. The only time this game gets crappy is if you become covert-aggressive just because it's fun.

To have a successful marriage or relationship you have to learn how to argue and how to let a persom vent.

Example: My wife would not use her screen protector on her phone. I told her to use it many times. I come home one day and her phone is on the counter with a broken screen. I dont say a word. Because as soon as I do she's gonna get mad and say something like "I knew you'd be happy to say I told you so!".

You gotta know when to stfu and your partner has to know when to stfu. If he's stressed out and he tells you to stop clicking your pen, don't say "Nooo its my pen you dont need to be mad". Just stop clicking your pen then when you get mad he should let you vent too. When he's mad cut him a break and when you're mad he should cut you a break.