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My boyfriend is always pressuring me for his. Dick to go in my vagina but I think butt sex feels so good I'm afraid he will break up with me if I don't give in soon I need to know if it hurts in the vagina.and does it hurt in a good or bad way and how to make it hurt less i also want to know how to prepare so if you can comment the answer to any of theses questions that would be helpful.
It sounds like you haven't actually *had* vaginal intercourse since you say "I need to know if it hurts in the vagina." You can't really have a preference for one thing over another when you haven't tried both things, so I'm not sure how to respond. It is normal for some women to enjoy anal intercourse as much or more than vaginal intercourse, but you should try both before you make a decision.
If it's your first time having vaginal intercourse then it might be uncomfortable and may even hurt. If your hymen is still intact then it might be broken during vaginal intercourse, which may result in pain and bleeding. Don't let the possibility of initial discomfort stop you from trying vaginal sex, though. The first few times are usually the worst, but if you keep doing it then it should start to feel good. If you become too uncomfortable during vaginal sex then tell your boyfriend to stop; if you're both still in the mood then you can switch to oral or anal sex instead (but NEVER switch from anal sex to vaginal or oral sex without washing thoroughly, you could get an infection).
To prepare for vaginal sex you might want to try inserting a finger into your vagina and swirling it around to stretch things out. As you loosen up you should be able to fit two fingers inside, and you can repeat the process with an increasing number of fingers until you're comfortable with the feeling. You may want to try this on your own at first just to get over your fears, and then incorporate it into the foreplay when you and your boyfriend are together (it feels better when he does it too, trust me). The only other things you'll need are condoms and lubricant, but I'm guessing you already have these since you're having anal sex. You may not need the lubricant since your body will produce its own when you're aroused, but it's good to have extra just in case you dry up during sex. You'll know if you're too dry because the sex will slowly feel less pleasurable and more painful; you'll want to stop and put some lube on when you think this is happening or else you could both end up rubbing yourselves raw and won't be able to finish.
Hope this helps.