Is it normal i like boyfriends like this?

Whether it's normal, or not, is irrelevant. There is no more justification in a so called 'boyfriend' hitting you, or treating you badly, than there is in you accepting it.

Even the most needy girl can find a decent guy if she's prepared to seek him out. If your self esteem is so low that you're willing to team up with some cowardly lump just because he's 'big and strong' then you need to take a long, hard, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you deserve much better than that.

I can't help picking up the vibe that you're one of those girls who, for some reason known only to themselves, is attracted to 'bad boys', to the extent that you actually take some masochistic pleasure from being abused by them.

If that's the case then we're all wasting our time responding to your query - apart from those giving you the answer which confirms what you already know.

In which case, the real answer is - it maybe normal for you, but you're welcome to your warped kind of normality.

Why do you NEED a boyfriend. I can understand WANTING but why do you feel you need one. I guess it's fairly normal, I know many females who say the NEED a boyfriend, but they are all in junior high. But not minding if your boyfriend hits you is just pathetic. Think if you told your parents that, or whoever raised you. Would they/he/she be disappointed in you? Heck yes! Or they/he/she should! Be independent. You are most likely COMPLETELY dependent on every boyfriend you have, that's why you would allow him to hit you. Get some skills so you won't have to date losers who would want to hit you.

I definitely don't think its normal I don't like when people are ok with being belittled. I'd never hit a woman and man that does it in front of me is going to be confronted. I hope you find a way to not be ok with it or at the very least find someone who won't do that to you.

It's a sadomasochistist relationship.

I can never tell which one's which, but I THINK

Sadism is you get thrills from inflicting pain.
Masochism is you get thrills from receiving said pain.

Sadists and Masochists are perfect sexual partners (within reason) because of this.

ohkay, here is my opinion. I put it as normal because I think you are a submissive girl. Some people like pain during sex and I know a couple liek that. The guy is dominant and the girl is submissive. They have this playroom and he makes her exercise three times a week with a personal trainer and controls her diet. He also uses whips and clamps (i only know this because she told me and they dont exactly hide their relationship) but she bloody loves it. She said though he hurts her she gets this rush out of it. She said she still feels respected by him because they've talked about it and worked out that its fine for him to hit because she likes the pain, as dose he. He likes the control. They are perfect for eachother.

While it’s normal to feel happier when in a relationship than when single, I think people should at least feel content when they’re not in a relationship. Otherwise there might be some personal issues that need work. It’s okay to want a big and strong boyfriend, but if you’re alright with him beating you then I think that indicates some major self esteem issues. You deserve someone who treats you with respect. Good luck.

it's too bad that you don't feel ok without being part of a relationship. hopefully this will come to you in the near future.

it's not ok that you don't mind being hit.

eah tats not a good thing,any of that, u shouldnt need to date and you shouldnt let anyone hit you