Just wondering, could this be considered rape? When someone insinuates not being in the mood for sex, that's usually accountable as rape. To me it sounds like you're obliged to have sex with him because you feel he is a great guy.
Its not rape. The Op said she was not in the mood she did not say not willing. She is doing something she does not feel like but will bare it for the sake of her lover. Rape means he forced her even when she would object to it. If he simply asked and she said "Sure but im not in the mood so hurry up" that is her being willing to please her husband even if she is not in the mood. Unless its S&M type thing in which the person on bottom wants to be forced but might only want this attention from certien type of people.
Yeah, the difference is that I am willing to do that, despite not feeling like it, but without being forced.
Let me give you another example:
Do you go to work to earn money and pay the rent?
Would you rather stay at home and read a book/play games/spend time with friends?
Do the expected answers to those 2 questions mean your job amounts to slavery?
Yeah, i said I never refuse. Point being I COULD. For example, if I'm down with a fever and pounding headache. But my boyfriend is considerate enough/has enough common sense in such situations to ask me what I need rather than for a quickie.
And unless it's something serious like that, with the words of howaminotmyself, he's welcome to use my body as he wants. Voluntarily so.
IIN I let my boyfriend have sex with me even when I'm not in the mood?
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Just wondering, could this be considered rape? When someone insinuates not being in the mood for sex, that's usually accountable as rape. To me it sounds like you're obliged to have sex with him because you feel he is a great guy.
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Its not rape. The Op said she was not in the mood she did not say not willing. She is doing something she does not feel like but will bare it for the sake of her lover. Rape means he forced her even when she would object to it. If he simply asked and she said "Sure but im not in the mood so hurry up" that is her being willing to please her husband even if she is not in the mood. Unless its S&M type thing in which the person on bottom wants to be forced but might only want this attention from certien type of people.
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Thanks for clearing that up.
Yeah, the difference is that I am willing to do that, despite not feeling like it, but without being forced.
Let me give you another example:
Do you go to work to earn money and pay the rent?
Would you rather stay at home and read a book/play games/spend time with friends?
Do the expected answers to those 2 questions mean your job amounts to slavery?
Yeah, i said I never refuse. Point being I COULD. For example, if I'm down with a fever and pounding headache. But my boyfriend is considerate enough/has enough common sense in such situations to ask me what I need rather than for a quickie.
And unless it's something serious like that, with the words of howaminotmyself, he's welcome to use my body as he wants. Voluntarily so.