Is it normal i kissed a guy and i'm disgusted w/ myself

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I'm 20 ad I got super drunk at a college party and I ended up meeting this other drunk guy and I kissed him outside. It was like a 6 second kiss and it didn't mean shit I was just drunk and he had kiss-me-eyes.

Later on campus he comes up to me and says he isn't interested in kissing guys he doesn't know and invited me to get breakfast with him the next day. I just wanted him out of my face so I said yes, then I never showed up to breakfast. Later he came up to me and asked why I stood him up and I told him I wasn't queer and that he just reminded me of a woman, then I told him to never talk to me again and never tell anyone I even looked in his direction, he apologized and that was that.

This was like a week ago and I still feel gross as shit for kissing another guy, I'm done plenty of dumb shit drunk but this lingers and I just feel disgusted with myself.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    6 years ago | pl

    Why would he apologise when you were extremely rude? I'd slap you.

    To me, it sounds like you are too scared to think you might be gay and you are reacting badly and rudely.

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    • Angelandme
      6 years ago

      OP had a gay moment. He's already blaming kissing on too many drinks like chicks do. He's probably trying to find god right now he's so traumatized by his experience. Either hell find god or he'll find a big black stud to kiss next.

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    • BahmBitosWhap
      6 years ago

      or hes simply not gay and just doesnt like it

      not everyone is gay

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      • yesnomaybeso
        6 years ago

        He kissed a guy, he didn't like it, he isn't gay - okay, fair enough.

        But WHY is he rude to a person -who is gay and thought he was too-? There is no excuse for that, sorry.

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        • darausnicht
          6 years ago

          I am bisexual and these gay kids need to have it cold and harsh because a lot of times, they will say the words but then catch feelings and forget what they were on about.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    6 years ago

    Kissing another guy isn't disgusting and you have no reason to be ashamed. I do think you owe that guy an apology for standing him up though.

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  • Ilikedonuts22
    6 years ago

    Honestly you are a jerk.You could have said you weren't interested but instead you decided to stand him up.I feel bad for the other guy.You disgust me.

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  • BahmBitosWhap
    6 years ago

    eh life goes on

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  • John__Cena
    6 years ago

    U may be gay man.

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  • heybitch
    6 years ago

    It just sounds like you have extreme insecurity in your masculinity

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    • AnnieMain
      6 years ago

      AGREED! If you know you're not gay... get over it! No need to be a big meanie afterwards!

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  • SpookyPancake
    6 years ago

    You shouldn't feel gross for kissing a guy, but you should feel gross for standing him up. You might identify as straight, but you probably have some latent gay tendencies (Kinsey 1) since alcohol wouldn't put in your head what wasn't already there, it just lowers inhibitions

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    • Maid_in_Pink
      6 years ago

      Yeah, I think more so the rudeness on the part of the OP by standing him up and being so vicious with his response to him deserves an apology from the OP to his gay friend. I'd expect you to do the same if it was just some random girl you didn't care about too.

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  • 4Guardians
    6 years ago

    That's normal af. Don't listen to the people who say no.

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  • darausnicht
    6 years ago

    I am a bisexual man and I see both sides of this "issue" when it comes to gay and straight people. Gay men and straight men act like there are land mines all over when it comes to the other one. However, I have either the right to be both gay and straight or to be in a separate group.

    Gay men and their enablers are all over shit peddling their homophobia and misogyny. So the fact that homosexual men may be the upper class in the pity/sympathy/victimhood compared to heterosexual or bisexual men. And WE BOTH are held to different social standards than gay men are. Last year, they wanted to lock up a bi dude who beat up some femme gay man for extorting and threatening to post revenge porn publicly. However, they tried crying hate crime and failed. Apparently men and women both win the spite competition

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    Dude, that is fucking normal.

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