Unfortunately, many men of many age ranges are looking for someone for sex... and they at least ask.
In my mind they are doing it totally wrong. They should instead ask about your interest and dreams... and just be a friend who is interested in you for a while... and then ask after some kind of real friendship has developed.
Of course, in about 80% of the time no level of friendship will develop for various reasons related to personality and chemistry. The of the remaining 20%, likely only 1/3 are interested in a potential sexual relationship with them.
But, the advantage of the method is that it's not likely to be a one night stand or a fling... and last for a while.
Of course, lazy people are everywhere (and woman have their fair share as well). I just wish more men would show more effort at trying to develop a real relationship first. I do know that the Ladies really appreciate those that do.
Because that would take work on their part - and they cannot fool or interest woman their age based on their actual situation and life stories.
I also note that if they were actually fairly successful in life that they would have lots of Ladies of all ages interested in them and willing to be sexual partners if they told ladies that they would help them become more successful themselves (I've actually experienced those requests from the jail bait age and up in the last decade, and have turned all but one of them down - and that one took over 3 months to develop the friendship necessary for me to get involved in such a relationship).
I suggest that you just ignore them and mark them down as people you don't want to associate with in your life (more than you may have to professionally).
You are correct, however that does not mean I am wrong.
In this case I believe that I understand this reality better than you having been the attention of such attraction for many years because of my success prior to Covid-19 mucking up my life. Not that I ever found a suitable GF for me from those who were interested in me based on my success. I got really good at saying "no."
IIN I keep getting approached by daddys?
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Unfortunately, many men of many age ranges are looking for someone for sex... and they at least ask.
In my mind they are doing it totally wrong. They should instead ask about your interest and dreams... and just be a friend who is interested in you for a while... and then ask after some kind of real friendship has developed.
Of course, in about 80% of the time no level of friendship will develop for various reasons related to personality and chemistry. The of the remaining 20%, likely only 1/3 are interested in a potential sexual relationship with them.
But, the advantage of the method is that it's not likely to be a one night stand or a fling... and last for a while.
Of course, lazy people are everywhere (and woman have their fair share as well). I just wish more men would show more effort at trying to develop a real relationship first. I do know that the Ladies really appreciate those that do.
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These people are old enough to be my dad. Why cant they find anyone thier age?
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Because women their own age have let themselves go and look and act like Walmart lowlifes
... because they are disgusting, lecherous, old creepers. I'm sorry that these pieces of shit are sexually harassing you!
Because that would take work on their part - and they cannot fool or interest woman their age based on their actual situation and life stories.
I also note that if they were actually fairly successful in life that they would have lots of Ladies of all ages interested in them and willing to be sexual partners if they told ladies that they would help them become more successful themselves (I've actually experienced those requests from the jail bait age and up in the last decade, and have turned all but one of them down - and that one took over 3 months to develop the friendship necessary for me to get involved in such a relationship).
I suggest that you just ignore them and mark them down as people you don't want to associate with in your life (more than you may have to professionally).
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Jesus. Success does not mean people will automatically take interest in you.
Have you lost touch with reality?
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You are correct, however that does not mean I am wrong.
In this case I believe that I understand this reality better than you having been the attention of such attraction for many years because of my success prior to Covid-19 mucking up my life. Not that I ever found a suitable GF for me from those who were interested in me based on my success. I got really good at saying "no."
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Okay, so you're not saying that success will guarantee you'll have women's interest?
So I don't understand. What's your point?
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Success does not guarantee all woman's interest.
But it sure does guarantee a lot of woman's interest.