Odds are good that he's doing the same thing, of course.
Whether or not you're over-thinking depends on what sort of relationship you and your husband have.
Does he know you masturbate at all? Many men find it very sexy to watch a woman giving herself pleasure. For me, that's partly because I just like seeing and hearing a woman have an orgasm, and partly because it confirms that she isn't just having sex to please me, but rather because she enjoys it.
If your husband has never seen you masturbate, maybe it would be a good starting point for you to surprise him sometime. There's nothing much sexier than a guy walking into the bedroom and seeing his partner sprawled naked on the bed with her busy fingers on her pussy, and her saying something like, "I've been thinking of you."
If he already knows that you masturbate, you could just bring up the subject of porn at some point, and ask him what he finds interesting. As I said, it's almost certain that he does watch it at least now and then, so you need to be careful in how you approach this. You don't want him immediately thinking that you're going to slam him if he admits that he does use porn.
Of course, there's no obligation on you to share your sexual fantasies with your husband, any more than he's required to share his with you. What goes on in our heads is private, and sometimes it's best if it remains that way. However, sharing fantasies can be a very good way of keeping passion alive in marriages.
Just out of pure, prurient curiosity, what sort of porn do you like?
Is it normal I hid that I masturbate from my husband?
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Odds are good that he's doing the same thing, of course.
Whether or not you're over-thinking depends on what sort of relationship you and your husband have.
Does he know you masturbate at all? Many men find it very sexy to watch a woman giving herself pleasure. For me, that's partly because I just like seeing and hearing a woman have an orgasm, and partly because it confirms that she isn't just having sex to please me, but rather because she enjoys it.
If your husband has never seen you masturbate, maybe it would be a good starting point for you to surprise him sometime. There's nothing much sexier than a guy walking into the bedroom and seeing his partner sprawled naked on the bed with her busy fingers on her pussy, and her saying something like, "I've been thinking of you."
If he already knows that you masturbate, you could just bring up the subject of porn at some point, and ask him what he finds interesting. As I said, it's almost certain that he does watch it at least now and then, so you need to be careful in how you approach this. You don't want him immediately thinking that you're going to slam him if he admits that he does use porn.
Of course, there's no obligation on you to share your sexual fantasies with your husband, any more than he's required to share his with you. What goes on in our heads is private, and sometimes it's best if it remains that way. However, sharing fantasies can be a very good way of keeping passion alive in marriages.
Just out of pure, prurient curiosity, what sort of porn do you like?
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Thank you for your intake. It is very helpful and I appreciate your honesty
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Yeah he'd probably be embarrassed to tell you what he does