Normal to think about someone you have a connection with? Yeah.
Mate, if you think you feel something do your absolute best to meet her in person.
I recently started talking to someone online I really click with, a somewhat similar story to yours actually, & I'd meet her in a heartbeat if I had half a chance! Unfortuantely we're about 15000 miles apart...
Personally I wouldn't confess your feelings until after you've met in person if you can help it.
It could add a lot of pressure for both of you & you may even find the chemistry you have online isn't there in person which might then make things awkward.
Hopefully that isn't the case though...
In saying that if you get to the point where plans to meet keep falling through & you think you're losing her, THEN tell her how you feel.
Chances are she's just as scared as you if she is also interested.
Also don't let fear of getting hurt hold you back.
It might happen, & it really fucking sucks when it does, but that's part of life. You have to take the good with the bad...
IIN I haven't met her but can't get her off my mind?
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Normal to think about someone you have a connection with? Yeah.
Mate, if you think you feel something do your absolute best to meet her in person.
I recently started talking to someone online I really click with, a somewhat similar story to yours actually, & I'd meet her in a heartbeat if I had half a chance! Unfortuantely we're about 15000 miles apart...
Personally I wouldn't confess your feelings until after you've met in person if you can help it.
It could add a lot of pressure for both of you & you may even find the chemistry you have online isn't there in person which might then make things awkward.
Hopefully that isn't the case though...
In saying that if you get to the point where plans to meet keep falling through & you think you're losing her, THEN tell her how you feel.
Chances are she's just as scared as you if she is also interested.
Also don't let fear of getting hurt hold you back.
It might happen, & it really fucking sucks when it does, but that's part of life. You have to take the good with the bad...