Some women find it unpleasant because some guys can be pretty disgusting when it comes to genital hygiene. Some women find it unpleasant because they can't get the thought out of their head that the guy urinates with his penis, and their Mommy did a very good job in convincing them that urine is dangerous and disgusting. Some women find it unpleasant because the guy expects them to do what they've seen professional, hugely-experienced porn actresses do: take the whole length and bob up and down on it like a demented chicken pecking at corn.
As with most sex, knowing techniques and moves can make it better and more enjoyable for both parties, but the most important thing is what's going on in your head.
If you're only giving him oral sex because you feel you have to in order to keep him in your life, that's not a great starting point. It turns something which you might potentially enjoy (and lots of women do) into a duty, and duty-sex is rarely good sex.
This really isn't the place to ask for detailed oral sex advice, but there's no shortage of internet sites which do have serious, credible advice for women in your position. Googling "how to do fellatio" results in nearly 40 million hits, and there's bound to be something there which will help you.
I wonder if he's ever given you oral sex. Lots of guys are amazingly one-sided when it comes to oral, and that's fundamentally unfair.
Is it normal I haven’t done this yet?
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Some women find it unpleasant because some guys can be pretty disgusting when it comes to genital hygiene. Some women find it unpleasant because they can't get the thought out of their head that the guy urinates with his penis, and their Mommy did a very good job in convincing them that urine is dangerous and disgusting. Some women find it unpleasant because the guy expects them to do what they've seen professional, hugely-experienced porn actresses do: take the whole length and bob up and down on it like a demented chicken pecking at corn.
As with most sex, knowing techniques and moves can make it better and more enjoyable for both parties, but the most important thing is what's going on in your head.
If you're only giving him oral sex because you feel you have to in order to keep him in your life, that's not a great starting point. It turns something which you might potentially enjoy (and lots of women do) into a duty, and duty-sex is rarely good sex.
This really isn't the place to ask for detailed oral sex advice, but there's no shortage of internet sites which do have serious, credible advice for women in your position. Googling "how to do fellatio" results in nearly 40 million hits, and there's bound to be something there which will help you.
I wonder if he's ever given you oral sex. Lots of guys are amazingly one-sided when it comes to oral, and that's fundamentally unfair.