When did I say I never let her talk to her father, what right do I have to stop her from doing that? Her father is a very nice man and I have a high respect for him. Surely I respect their father daughter relationship, and neve found anything suspicious. But I said that I do not want her to be mixing with any other man other tan myself and her father to which she agreed upon and promised not to do and she kept her promise till this day because she loves me and I would have done the same if she asked me. I was 16 when I beat my brother, 19 now and I admit it felt hear breaking to do so. But you have no idea how I felt then, and I support what I did and if he ever dares to do something like that again, he would expect the very same treatment from me. He has his own girl friend now, so chances of that happening again are slim.
Ah I see, that was my bad, I thought I read you didn't let her talk to her father.
Although I still stick by what I said. You seem like you have a lot of issues. First off, you're right I don't know what you felt like with your brother's situation, but that doesn't disregard me from judgment--you shouldn't respond to situations like that with violence. Second, you're an adult now I presume, and as an adult it is time to start acting like the big boy you are. You cannot attack your brother, that is assault in the eyes of the law, and you can get arrested and jail time if your brother chose to press charges. This shouldn't even be a discussion, because your girlfriend shouldn't show any interest in him at all.
On another note, jealousy in and of itself is pointless. There are only two possible scenarios: 1) Either your girlfriend is truly loyal, at which point there is no need to be jealous because she wont cheat on you with other men or 2) She is not trustworthy, at which point why would you want to remain with her anyway? If she is important to you, trust her.
I'm not attacking you, but you seem based on your aggressive actions and your mentality like you are on your way to eventually abusing her.
Is it normal I have this feelings regarding my bisexual girl friend?
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Agreed. It sounds like OP has some serious issues. Everyone gets jealous from time to time, but you can't go around assaulting people.
Seriously? Not letting her talk to her father? Yeah...
It honestly sounds like the OP is a very young person too just on the childish behavior.
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When did I say I never let her talk to her father, what right do I have to stop her from doing that? Her father is a very nice man and I have a high respect for him. Surely I respect their father daughter relationship, and neve found anything suspicious. But I said that I do not want her to be mixing with any other man other tan myself and her father to which she agreed upon and promised not to do and she kept her promise till this day because she loves me and I would have done the same if she asked me. I was 16 when I beat my brother, 19 now and I admit it felt hear breaking to do so. But you have no idea how I felt then, and I support what I did and if he ever dares to do something like that again, he would expect the very same treatment from me. He has his own girl friend now, so chances of that happening again are slim.
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Ah I see, that was my bad, I thought I read you didn't let her talk to her father.
Although I still stick by what I said. You seem like you have a lot of issues. First off, you're right I don't know what you felt like with your brother's situation, but that doesn't disregard me from judgment--you shouldn't respond to situations like that with violence. Second, you're an adult now I presume, and as an adult it is time to start acting like the big boy you are. You cannot attack your brother, that is assault in the eyes of the law, and you can get arrested and jail time if your brother chose to press charges. This shouldn't even be a discussion, because your girlfriend shouldn't show any interest in him at all.
On another note, jealousy in and of itself is pointless. There are only two possible scenarios: 1) Either your girlfriend is truly loyal, at which point there is no need to be jealous because she wont cheat on you with other men or 2) She is not trustworthy, at which point why would you want to remain with her anyway? If she is important to you, trust her.
I'm not attacking you, but you seem based on your aggressive actions and your mentality like you are on your way to eventually abusing her.