Is it normal I have been so indifferent to the person I am dating?

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    Not completely related, but...
    Relationships without love are destined for failure.
    Read what I wrote here: <a href="http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not-like-the-feeling-of-love-156487/" rel="nofollow">http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-not...</a>
    I'm not in the mood to repost it.
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    Back to this post...
    It's not fair on the other person if you if you lead them on in a one-sided love relationship.
    The right thing to do would be to let this person know how you feel.
    At some point, you may develop feelings for this person, but you should limit how long you let the relationship continue if you don't. You're eventually going to get bored with your new 'toy' and you will hurt that person more the longer they have been with you.
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    And if you are suspicious of that person's feelings, you should proceed with caution, especially in the beginning to avoid hurting yourself. (the reverse of what I described above.
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    TL;DR:
    From what you said, I am unable to guess whether this person wants to use you or has genuine feelings, so proceed with caution.
    It's also not right for you to just use them, so if you don't develop feelings for them, you should rather end the relationship.

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