Well I kind of get the feeling they see me the same way. I feel like everything they say is a lie. I do not hold myself in high regard next to others. So I am not bothered if they are just using me.
I am confused and very suspicious as why they would be so uninterested in me and suddenly years later say "Im in love with you". No just one at the moment. I been kind of unable to feel a lot after the person I was with for over 2 years.
This is an old friend who new me for years even after I broke up with that person and I told them at one point I was interested in them and they completely rejected me. I was really ok with this and did not make a big deal about it.
We have not talked since graduation and 2 years after they suddenly call saying "I love you. I realize I miss you. I want to be with you forever." So I am wondering what is going on with the sudden change.
You don't sound ready to truly commit to one another. You suspect this other person feels the same, but state that they have told you they are in love with you. Not only that, but want to 'be with you forever'.
These are profound statements uttered in a very shallow manner. But you suspect everything said is a lie, yeah?
It sounds like you don't/can't really feel a lot for each other. The other person sounds desperate, and probably likes the sound of what they are saying to you.
How serious or real does this relationship feel to you? And how does the other party view it do you think in reality?
I truly wish you well, and hope you don't hurt, or get hurt. But something tells me that is not very likely to happen.
Well I feel they have some alternative motive. Be it to look good for parents, or make someone jealous or something like that. I am not entirely sure though.
Just for them to suddenly act like I mean everything to them when they seemed to have such a lack of interest in the idea before seems like a lie. As of this time I have cut them off.
I dislike them now greatly and they are as good as dead to me. I doubt I will be the one to get hurt when I already detached myself from the relationship. I really dont think they care that much either though so doubt they would really give a fuck.
I kind of took this approach with most people. I just cut everyone off. I am beginning to lose my patients with people. I cant deal with this kind of thing anymore.
Is it normal I have been so indifferent to the person I am dating?
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Well I kind of get the feeling they see me the same way. I feel like everything they say is a lie. I do not hold myself in high regard next to others. So I am not bothered if they are just using me.
I am confused and very suspicious as why they would be so uninterested in me and suddenly years later say "Im in love with you". No just one at the moment. I been kind of unable to feel a lot after the person I was with for over 2 years.
This is an old friend who new me for years even after I broke up with that person and I told them at one point I was interested in them and they completely rejected me. I was really ok with this and did not make a big deal about it.
We have not talked since graduation and 2 years after they suddenly call saying "I love you. I realize I miss you. I want to be with you forever." So I am wondering what is going on with the sudden change.
I dont feel a lot for people anymore.
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You don't sound ready to truly commit to one another. You suspect this other person feels the same, but state that they have told you they are in love with you. Not only that, but want to 'be with you forever'.
These are profound statements uttered in a very shallow manner. But you suspect everything said is a lie, yeah?
It sounds like you don't/can't really feel a lot for each other. The other person sounds desperate, and probably likes the sound of what they are saying to you.
How serious or real does this relationship feel to you? And how does the other party view it do you think in reality?
I truly wish you well, and hope you don't hurt, or get hurt. But something tells me that is not very likely to happen.
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Well I feel they have some alternative motive. Be it to look good for parents, or make someone jealous or something like that. I am not entirely sure though.
Just for them to suddenly act like I mean everything to them when they seemed to have such a lack of interest in the idea before seems like a lie. As of this time I have cut them off.
I dislike them now greatly and they are as good as dead to me. I doubt I will be the one to get hurt when I already detached myself from the relationship. I really dont think they care that much either though so doubt they would really give a fuck.
I kind of took this approach with most people. I just cut everyone off. I am beginning to lose my patients with people. I cant deal with this kind of thing anymore.