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I'm a gay man who is totally grossed out by vaginas/camel toe/ pussy, or whatever you want to call it. It just looks WRONG. Like flappy skin, and then every woman is different like no one could make up their mind. I am grossed out and borderline offended of women who think they should be nude in public.
Are there other guys or girls who feel this way?
I'm straight but I actually understand what you're saying. I think women are beautiful and I love every part of them, except their genitals. I don't know why but I've always found all genitals of both genders to be rather gross looking.
I don't know why but genitals in general have just always looked disgusting to me.
Childish. And I'm a gay man myself.
It's one thing to not be sexually attracted to women (or men) and that's fine.
It doesn't sound cute, sassy or the least bit funny when gay men make crass jokes about being "grossed out" by vaginas. It sounds childish at best, downright misogynist most of the time.
A vagina has to be trim (not shaven, I'm not a closet kiddy fiddler) because fuck, there is nothing worse than going down on a girl and getting pubes in your throat. I don't care what feminism teaches you, ladies, that is not cool or fair. When you give head, your mouth needn't take in any long pubes. Do us the same courtesy. This also prevents vaginal juices getting in the hairs and sticking them together. Double gross.
It has to be well washed. Seriously. Thankfully I have only ever once seen a vagina that was not in top notch condition. My first ever girlfriend (I was 13, she was 15 and bipolar and switched between horny and self harming quite easily) we never went the full par but she was deliciously sweet tasting. Vaginas can be wonderful, but when they're not, they're terrible.
As for the male genitalia, this is where my sexuality starts to be less... clear cut. Blowjobs are my favourite kind of porn, even before lesbian porn (no real penetration =/= no real fun). And it's not just thinking "she's hot, I'd love to think that's my dick" but also "that's hot, I'd love to know what that feels like in my mouth."
However, only when disembodied. As soon as I see it attached to a male body (always fucking ugly, have you noticed that in straight porn? I mean, I don't find any man sexually attractive but Christ you get some real mingers in straight porn) I just think "no".
If only it was normal for there to be beautiful women with voluptuous breasts, born and raised with a chunky cock that stood up with a slight upward curve. Unfortunately this is not the case. The closest we have are trans women, 50% are not really trans at all but do it for the porn and have massive hands and Adam's apples and just look like shaved blokes with tits, 45% are beautiful young women who have gone through transition, but do not watch the penis touched at all, and there is the sacred 5% who have everything and do everything.
But I digress. I am, for all intents and purposes, straight. I would never fuck a man, but a good looking dick (well shaped head, slight arch, no sideways curve, good section shape) is easier to find than a good looking pussy (tight, closely trimmed, and not bulging) - my opinion though.
I'll tell you my first girlfriend had the smelliest pussy ever. Like day old fish. When I was young all my friends would talk about eating pussy. So when my chance came available I said to myself, ah now I can see what it is all about. I went down on my girlfriend and I thought to myself that my friends must have been pulling my leg, double yuck!
Anyway, since then I had sampled many other women, only to find out that not all women are the same. Out of all the women I've ate, only one was bad. Big relief!
To me I like tight small lips for a woman's pussy, long dangly lips, extra skin, not so attractive. So I am pretty selective. I guess I sort of agree with you, for me they have to meet the spec's.
As far as men genitalia, double gross! Enough said.