Is it normal I hate the bisexual agenda?

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  • Haha, "bisexual agenda". They're not an organised group, you know :P

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    I think it's more accurate to say that nobody has a fixed sexual orientation. Sexual preference, yes, but I don't believe anyone who has a drive for sex is absolutely 100% completely entirely exclusive to one sex (you're free to disagree with that). The word most people know which is closest to describing that is "bisexual", but I think when people use the word that way it's a corruption of the term. Pansexual is probably closer to that, because the terms implies ignoring the sex or a partner and not seeing it as important (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070921020410AADaJcN). It's a subtle difference to a lot of people. I think a lot of people could be described as pansexual but don't identify with the term because they've never heard of it. Hell, even *I* could be better described as pansexual then any other sexuality, but I've identified with the term. I don't know why that is, maybe because it isn't a helpful term to a lot of people if you're describing sexuality.

    I can understand the need of someone who feels different or confused or scared to define themselves as an orientation because it gives them security and safety to know "who they are", but don't even think sexuality even exists in the sense that we usually describe it.

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    So yeah, I think it's wrong in the sense of false and wrong in the sense of immoral to say "everyone is bisexual". I think it's a misuse of the word "bisexual", and I think what they usually mean is that fixed sexualities, like heterosexuality and homosexuality are illusions because they are absolute terms, and sexuality, like everything else, does not lend itself to the absolute. I DO believe THAT.

    EDIT: In fact, just to prove "everyone is bisexual" false, what about people only attracted to non-human animals? They're not bisexual. Bisexual also implies two sexes ("bi"), but what about people who identify as the "third sex"? People attracted to them aren't bisexual either.

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    • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
      They all have flags and groups.

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      • That doesn't mean they think or act as one. There is a group called the Christians, but not all of them believe all the same things. There is a group called the Americans, who, despite all having the same patterned cloth do not share the same opinions. There is a group called the bisexuals, but to suggest that they all believe the same thing is as ridiculous as suggesting all Christians or all Americans or all lawnmower manufacturers or all deodorant users believe the same thing.

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    • *I've NEVER identified with the term.

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