First of all, we're not a party. We don't all have one agenda. We're not all working together Some bisexual people are assholes, just like some straight people and gay people are assholes. I'm bisexual, and I've never said "We're all bi" in my life. I've also never broken up with somebody because of their gender. Saying "most" doesn't mean it's not a stereotype. If somebody said "Most black people I know are thieves", that would be stereotyping. If they said "Most gay people are promiscuous", that would also be stereotyping.
When you say "they did attack the rest of us first", that is also stereotyping. You've decided that all bisexual people have the same beliefs about sexuality and behave the same way towards people who aren't bisexual, which isn't true at all.
No actually when I say they I speak of the group going around saying "We must all be bi" I hate these people. I know your not a party that was a lousy way to describe it. I know you are not all like that but these idiots need to be shut up. I also know all gays are not for what the gay party is doing. I say a party since these groups tend to have community’s that represent them. Not to say they all believe that way but in the community a large percentage of them do. Also I do not like being told we are all bad since we are not bi. That is the most upsetting thing about this.
The problem you have seems to be with people who say "Everybody is bisexual!", not with bisexual people in general. When you talk about it as if most bisexual people think this way, it's hurtful, especially when you're also saying bisexual people are unreliable, which is a widespread stereotype that makes things really hard for us sometimes.
Yes that is my point. I hate these type of people that is the point of my post. They are pushing we need to be Bi so its a "Agenda" as I said.
They have gay people who are gay but do not push the "Agenda" and they have straight people who do not say "kill all gays" since they do not have a "Agenda" that is why I put I hate the bi "Agenda".
They also have people with the “Sex” agenda pushing “Sex” alone everywhere including in school, TV, music and so on. At one point someone suggested “lets teach sex ed to kindergarten".
Also forgive me if I came off as sexist. I know not all bi people are like that. I dislike being attacked for not being bi.
I think if someone told a gay person “You could have had sex with the opposite sex the whole time so why did you not?” I think they are going to take great offence to that.
I myself am on the gate so I just go with straight since people tend to get upset if you state anything else
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Like here most of them have a house that represents them. They all have flags and different organizations.
If you take the flags to mean that we're all working together and have the same opinions, you're wildly mistaken. They're just symbols, like the gay pride flag. We're not conspiring together.
Is it normal I hate the bisexual agenda?
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A stereo type is a blanket they put over a whole group of people based what a percentage of them are doing. Like saying 100% of people are bi.
I have not stated such a thing. I have stated in the post "Most bisexual people I have known" That means many not all. Watch the wording next time.
Most means not all. That means I am not going by a stereo type. You are trying to state I am doing something wrong since I have attacked your party.
To be fair they did attack the rest of us first so this is what they get.
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First of all, we're not a party. We don't all have one agenda. We're not all working together Some bisexual people are assholes, just like some straight people and gay people are assholes. I'm bisexual, and I've never said "We're all bi" in my life. I've also never broken up with somebody because of their gender. Saying "most" doesn't mean it's not a stereotype. If somebody said "Most black people I know are thieves", that would be stereotyping. If they said "Most gay people are promiscuous", that would also be stereotyping.
When you say "they did attack the rest of us first", that is also stereotyping. You've decided that all bisexual people have the same beliefs about sexuality and behave the same way towards people who aren't bisexual, which isn't true at all.
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No actually when I say they I speak of the group going around saying "We must all be bi" I hate these people. I know your not a party that was a lousy way to describe it. I know you are not all like that but these idiots need to be shut up. I also know all gays are not for what the gay party is doing. I say a party since these groups tend to have community’s that represent them. Not to say they all believe that way but in the community a large percentage of them do. Also I do not like being told we are all bad since we are not bi. That is the most upsetting thing about this.
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The problem you have seems to be with people who say "Everybody is bisexual!", not with bisexual people in general. When you talk about it as if most bisexual people think this way, it's hurtful, especially when you're also saying bisexual people are unreliable, which is a widespread stereotype that makes things really hard for us sometimes.
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Yes that is my point. I hate these type of people that is the point of my post. They are pushing we need to be Bi so its a "Agenda" as I said.
They have gay people who are gay but do not push the "Agenda" and they have straight people who do not say "kill all gays" since they do not have a "Agenda" that is why I put I hate the bi "Agenda".
They also have people with the “Sex” agenda pushing “Sex” alone everywhere including in school, TV, music and so on. At one point someone suggested “lets teach sex ed to kindergarten".
Also forgive me if I came off as sexist. I know not all bi people are like that. I dislike being attacked for not being bi.
I think if someone told a gay person “You could have had sex with the opposite sex the whole time so why did you not?” I think they are going to take great offence to that.
I myself am on the gate so I just go with straight since people tend to get upset if you state anything else
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Of course you'd take offence at that, because it's offensive. It doesn't justify this biphobic post though.
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Yes it was. I am not biphobic but these idiots pushing this is pissing me off. Im sorry if I insulted.
Honestly I was hoping some of them would read this so I could make a point but they have not.
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If you take the flags to mean that we're all working together and have the same opinions, you're wildly mistaken. They're just symbols, like the gay pride flag. We're not conspiring together.
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They went to the parade in groups? they are not the same?
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Working together for civil rights and awareness isn't the same as conspiring together. Why am I even bothering anymore?
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Ok point taken.