The "everybody is bi" thing is rude and shitty, yeah. It really bothers me when I hear other bisexual people say that. But the flip flopping thing is just a (very insulting) stereotype, so please stop spreading it.
Not a stereo type. I speak from personal experience. I have lost a lot of lovers who have done this. I also watched it happen to many other people. I am not following a stereo type.
First of all, we're not a party. We don't all have one agenda. We're not all working together Some bisexual people are assholes, just like some straight people and gay people are assholes. I'm bisexual, and I've never said "We're all bi" in my life. I've also never broken up with somebody because of their gender. Saying "most" doesn't mean it's not a stereotype. If somebody said "Most black people I know are thieves", that would be stereotyping. If they said "Most gay people are promiscuous", that would also be stereotyping.
When you say "they did attack the rest of us first", that is also stereotyping. You've decided that all bisexual people have the same beliefs about sexuality and behave the same way towards people who aren't bisexual, which isn't true at all.
No actually when I say they I speak of the group going around saying "We must all be bi" I hate these people. I know your not a party that was a lousy way to describe it. I know you are not all like that but these idiots need to be shut up. I also know all gays are not for what the gay party is doing. I say a party since these groups tend to have community’s that represent them. Not to say they all believe that way but in the community a large percentage of them do. Also I do not like being told we are all bad since we are not bi. That is the most upsetting thing about this.
The problem you have seems to be with people who say "Everybody is bisexual!", not with bisexual people in general. When you talk about it as if most bisexual people think this way, it's hurtful, especially when you're also saying bisexual people are unreliable, which is a widespread stereotype that makes things really hard for us sometimes.
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexual_flag#Flag" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexual_flag#Flag</a>
Like here most of them have a house that represents them. They all have flags and different organizations.
If you take the flags to mean that we're all working together and have the same opinions, you're wildly mistaken. They're just symbols, like the gay pride flag. We're not conspiring together.
Is it normal I hate the bisexual agenda?
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The "everybody is bi" thing is rude and shitty, yeah. It really bothers me when I hear other bisexual people say that. But the flip flopping thing is just a (very insulting) stereotype, so please stop spreading it.
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Not a stereo type. I speak from personal experience. I have lost a lot of lovers who have done this. I also watched it happen to many other people. I am not following a stereo type.
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That's how people defend all stereotypes, though.
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A stereo type is a blanket they put over a whole group of people based what a percentage of them are doing. Like saying 100% of people are bi.
I have not stated such a thing. I have stated in the post "Most bisexual people I have known" That means many not all. Watch the wording next time.
Most means not all. That means I am not going by a stereo type. You are trying to state I am doing something wrong since I have attacked your party.
To be fair they did attack the rest of us first so this is what they get.
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First of all, we're not a party. We don't all have one agenda. We're not all working together Some bisexual people are assholes, just like some straight people and gay people are assholes. I'm bisexual, and I've never said "We're all bi" in my life. I've also never broken up with somebody because of their gender. Saying "most" doesn't mean it's not a stereotype. If somebody said "Most black people I know are thieves", that would be stereotyping. If they said "Most gay people are promiscuous", that would also be stereotyping.
When you say "they did attack the rest of us first", that is also stereotyping. You've decided that all bisexual people have the same beliefs about sexuality and behave the same way towards people who aren't bisexual, which isn't true at all.
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No actually when I say they I speak of the group going around saying "We must all be bi" I hate these people. I know your not a party that was a lousy way to describe it. I know you are not all like that but these idiots need to be shut up. I also know all gays are not for what the gay party is doing. I say a party since these groups tend to have community’s that represent them. Not to say they all believe that way but in the community a large percentage of them do. Also I do not like being told we are all bad since we are not bi. That is the most upsetting thing about this.
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The problem you have seems to be with people who say "Everybody is bisexual!", not with bisexual people in general. When you talk about it as if most bisexual people think this way, it's hurtful, especially when you're also saying bisexual people are unreliable, which is a widespread stereotype that makes things really hard for us sometimes.
Honestly I was hoping some of them would read this so I could make a point but they have not.
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexual_flag#Flag" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexual_flag#Flag</a>
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If you take the flags to mean that we're all working together and have the same opinions, you're wildly mistaken. They're just symbols, like the gay pride flag. We're not conspiring together.
I am not defending a stereotype. I did not state a stereotype. I have stated things I see happening over and over.
You seem to misunderstand a stereotype. I have spread nothing. I am sorry this article made your party look bad but this needed to be said.
I would not hold back if it was my party either. Be it age group or gender. We all have faults that is a given in all humans.