She is a very insecure person so maybe she wants to ensure its normal with somethings. I've told her how I don't like it at all and said for her not to tell them certain things.
The main thing at the moment, is that we wanna try a strap on... Now THAT is something I'd never live down if that got out. She said she wouldn't be able to keep it a secret so I said I'm not doing it. The thing is now, I don't want her to tell them we were even considering it and she said she hasn't seen them yet but she probably will!
I'm gonna have a more serious word with her about it.
She most certainly needs to see in order for her to be herself she doesn't have to get approval from her friends. How I'm taking it in your situation she needs to find her own values and realize she can keep things to herself. This is a great way for her own self approval; is that you don't have to share your life to others all the time. Except yourself! Maybe this could be a helpful hint to give her also.
Here is also a good website:
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself
Like I've said I wouldn't want to share too many personal details even if they ask I would like to keep my partners and my sex life personal. :)
IIN I hate that my girlfriend tells her best friends EVERYTHING
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She is a very insecure person so maybe she wants to ensure its normal with somethings. I've told her how I don't like it at all and said for her not to tell them certain things.
The main thing at the moment, is that we wanna try a strap on... Now THAT is something I'd never live down if that got out. She said she wouldn't be able to keep it a secret so I said I'm not doing it. The thing is now, I don't want her to tell them we were even considering it and she said she hasn't seen them yet but she probably will!
I'm gonna have a more serious word with her about it.
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Ok, I hope all goes well.
She most certainly needs to see in order for her to be herself she doesn't have to get approval from her friends. How I'm taking it in your situation she needs to find her own values and realize she can keep things to herself. This is a great way for her own self approval; is that you don't have to share your life to others all the time. Except yourself! Maybe this could be a helpful hint to give her also.
Here is also a good website:
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself
Like I've said I wouldn't want to share too many personal details even if they ask I would like to keep my partners and my sex life personal. :)