Is it normal? i hate my cousin's boyfriend

Well I really hate my favorite cousin's boyfriend. I put up with him for her sake but truth is i can't stand him. The weird thing is that every time I'm over at her house and he comes over she wants me to stay. Everything about him makes me sick, he acts like a female, and he is a geek. I dread the time he's around. The killer part is we was really good friends once upon a time. How do I let her know that I can't tolerate him without hurting her?

Is It Normal?
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  • i have a cousin and she is my best friend, but i hate her boyfriend, she just says that everything will stay I get the same between us, and i get where your coming from,I was just worried that i was getting replace, and I asked her if she thought they were gonna get married, she said yes, I said If you do I am not coming , stick with your gut and your cousin needs to decide who is more important you or her boyfriend.

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  • Are you jealous of their relationship by any chance? If so get over it because it doesn't hurt anyone except yourself and presumably you'd like to keep her friendship.

    However, you have to realise friendships change when one friend gets involved in a lover relationship - sad but true.

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  • Tell her you don't like hanging out when he's there.

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  • If hes a good person, he makes her happy, and their into eachother

    Ask yourself this question, "are you dating him or is she?"

    Let her date whom she wants

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  • i don't know that you can. unless he is a really bad person, i think you should stay out of it and keep your opinion to yourself, for her sake at least.

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