Have you thought about the fact that your boyfriend or any guy for that matter cannot really help themselves? It is nature and instinct for guys to look at women, and it doesn't (normally) mean anything. Take it easy on the guy, as long as he is respectful and committed to your relationship when it comes to direct interaction with other women you have nothing to worry about. I bet you are a little bet jealous by nature which is cute, just don't take it too far.
People really have the wrong impression about me ~.~ I'm not jelouse, my boyfriend has also stated his distaste for people saying and behaving like that, before I even brought it up. He just happens to be a really great guy. I don't worry one bit about him looking at other females. People can say he's just lying or whatever, but it doesn't change the fact that I believe him. I really just think that nowadays people are to flimsy on the word "Love" and commiting yourself to someone has become less and less of a full commitment, and it bothers me. I mean, is it really so hard to only see your partner in that way? I don't mind if he sees some star or actress and recognizes that she's attractive, it's when people are staring at her tits and being like "Check dem thangs out ;)" That it seems not okay. If that makes sense. Just reallllyyy wanted to clear that up.
I get what you are saying and I actually agree with you on the fact that people nowadays seem to have a problem with committing to one partner. It is a matter of respect I guess, if you respect your girlfriend and your relationship you would not be disrespectful like that towards other women because you indirectly offend your own girlfriend and show that you are not taking the relationship seriously, so it's great that your boyfriend feels that way as well, it says a lot :)
However, you should not underestimate the fact that modern day society really feeds this behavior. The actresses or stars themselves (followed by the general public) even encourage it by dressing more and more provocative, they WANT this reaction by guys. and when a guy sees a hot girl parading around half-naked it is just more likely for them to react in such a way instead of disapproving.
Oh well, if we keep this up in 10 years everyone on tv will be naked anyway and we won't have that problem anymore ;)
Is it normal I hate it when people say this?
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Have you thought about the fact that your boyfriend or any guy for that matter cannot really help themselves? It is nature and instinct for guys to look at women, and it doesn't (normally) mean anything. Take it easy on the guy, as long as he is respectful and committed to your relationship when it comes to direct interaction with other women you have nothing to worry about. I bet you are a little bet jealous by nature which is cute, just don't take it too far.
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People really have the wrong impression about me ~.~ I'm not jelouse, my boyfriend has also stated his distaste for people saying and behaving like that, before I even brought it up. He just happens to be a really great guy. I don't worry one bit about him looking at other females. People can say he's just lying or whatever, but it doesn't change the fact that I believe him. I really just think that nowadays people are to flimsy on the word "Love" and commiting yourself to someone has become less and less of a full commitment, and it bothers me. I mean, is it really so hard to only see your partner in that way? I don't mind if he sees some star or actress and recognizes that she's attractive, it's when people are staring at her tits and being like "Check dem thangs out ;)" That it seems not okay. If that makes sense. Just reallllyyy wanted to clear that up.
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I get what you are saying and I actually agree with you on the fact that people nowadays seem to have a problem with committing to one partner. It is a matter of respect I guess, if you respect your girlfriend and your relationship you would not be disrespectful like that towards other women because you indirectly offend your own girlfriend and show that you are not taking the relationship seriously, so it's great that your boyfriend feels that way as well, it says a lot :)
However, you should not underestimate the fact that modern day society really feeds this behavior. The actresses or stars themselves (followed by the general public) even encourage it by dressing more and more provocative, they WANT this reaction by guys. and when a guy sees a hot girl parading around half-naked it is just more likely for them to react in such a way instead of disapproving.
Oh well, if we keep this up in 10 years everyone on tv will be naked anyway and we won't have that problem anymore ;)