I think it depends on who you are married to and what the parameters of your marriage are. It's between a person and their spouse. I know a couple where the man lets the woman sleep with anyone she wants to as long as she doesn't leave him. That's their proviso. Personally, that goes too far for me. I'd want my wife to be faithful. But if she noticed that another man was attractive, and maybe even flirted a little, that's probably okay. We'd both know what "a little" means and what is likely to upset each other and if we were a good couple, we'd respect each other enough to not stray beyond it.
Is it normal I hate it when people say this?
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I think it depends on who you are married to and what the parameters of your marriage are. It's between a person and their spouse. I know a couple where the man lets the woman sleep with anyone she wants to as long as she doesn't leave him. That's their proviso. Personally, that goes too far for me. I'd want my wife to be faithful. But if she noticed that another man was attractive, and maybe even flirted a little, that's probably okay. We'd both know what "a little" means and what is likely to upset each other and if we were a good couple, we'd respect each other enough to not stray beyond it.