Is it normal i hate getting fingered?

He probobly does not know what he is doing and hurts you. Do you like fingering yourself? If you want him to have sex with his private area tell him that. Explain you are not comfortable with being fingered.

FocoUS is right. I've only known one guy who really knew what he was doing. You could try to show them or guide them. Some guys are quite keen to learn.

I hate doing it

My wife hates it too-And I HATE that!

*it

Either he isnt doing it right or you dont enjoy iy in the first place not everyone enjoys the same things.

So you need to train your guy up some in waht he's doing. Or do you hold the same opinion of your own fingers?

I agree...it doesn't feel good when ANYONE does it..just feels pokey lol

Okay, sorry for sounded so weird, i just know how to put "fingererd" any other way

That's because most are really bad at it.