I love both of my children and would never give them up. The pregnancy part though yes I would. The reason I say my husband tricked me is because he wanted another kid and I didn't. I was happy with my one, mainly because my husband is in the military and as of right now works 16 hours a day 7 days a week then 2 days off. In 6 months hes being deployed for a year, that's why I was happy with my one. He's never raised a baby before as he is my sons stepfather. As for the people that stop me and ask about everything, if they say congrats fine. But most people need to learn when enough is enough and try not to get to personal in the questions.
Well I understand at least... even if he didn't necessarily trick you, he could very well have been hoping for something like this to happen, knowing that once you were pregnant it would almost be a guarantee you'd keep it.. :x
Surely your frustration with him is why you're feeling so negatively about the pregnancy, the association is so thick I can taste it. And I know my friend who had a baby recently got really annoyed with how much people will nag you when you get pregnant.. "eat this, don't eat that, are you really drinking coffee??" and the like, as though being pregnant gives everyone around you a liscence to give you medical advise :P
But I think it's really important that you talk to your husband about how you feel, that's not something I'd wanna let sit that could come up later down the road and cause a fight.
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I love both of my children and would never give them up. The pregnancy part though yes I would. The reason I say my husband tricked me is because he wanted another kid and I didn't. I was happy with my one, mainly because my husband is in the military and as of right now works 16 hours a day 7 days a week then 2 days off. In 6 months hes being deployed for a year, that's why I was happy with my one. He's never raised a baby before as he is my sons stepfather. As for the people that stop me and ask about everything, if they say congrats fine. But most people need to learn when enough is enough and try not to get to personal in the questions.
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Well I understand at least... even if he didn't necessarily trick you, he could very well have been hoping for something like this to happen, knowing that once you were pregnant it would almost be a guarantee you'd keep it.. :x
Surely your frustration with him is why you're feeling so negatively about the pregnancy, the association is so thick I can taste it. And I know my friend who had a baby recently got really annoyed with how much people will nag you when you get pregnant.. "eat this, don't eat that, are you really drinking coffee??" and the like, as though being pregnant gives everyone around you a liscence to give you medical advise :P
But I think it's really important that you talk to your husband about how you feel, that's not something I'd wanna let sit that could come up later down the road and cause a fight.