I know how you feel, my twin boys came as surprises, and I was only 18. Their conceiving was the only time we didn't use a condom, it too was only when my period went by later that month that I actually took a test. As it happened it turned blue, and I was married 15 days before my two lovelies came along!
The people who coo and fuss over you and your little bundle of joy probably aren't doing it to spite you; rather from interest and care for you both.
Don't take it personally - maybe they do it to every preggie woman
they see!
Your friend seems as though she's experiencing a different pregnancy to yours; she might be more prepared, more stoical amd have more of the classic symptoms - but that doesn't mean you can't celebrate your pregnancy, too!
I never had any morning sickness at all when I was pregnant, no baby clothes for the twins' arrival, and I was holed up with backache half of the time! Don't let it get to you, girl!
As for your little one being an accident...
Sometimes in life we just have to grit our teeth and enjoy the ride. My two were unplanned, but now I don't refer to them as accidents - I like to say that they're surprises! Who knows, maybe your baby will enrich your life. I know I'd be devastated if anything happened to mine.
Pregnancy is a wonderful thing. It's the tool which forges life from a tiny atom, a journey with twists and turns more magical than you could ever have imagined!
Good luck, and feel free to contact me (or reply) with any questions you may have!
I still don't see how people see pregnancy as a miracle of life. It's pain and misery, so the pregnancy itself isn't that fantastic. Plus it's far from a miracle, it's reproduction.
IIN I hate being pregnant?
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Hello there!
You sound very angry!
I know how you feel, my twin boys came as surprises, and I was only 18. Their conceiving was the only time we didn't use a condom, it too was only when my period went by later that month that I actually took a test. As it happened it turned blue, and I was married 15 days before my two lovelies came along!
The people who coo and fuss over you and your little bundle of joy probably aren't doing it to spite you; rather from interest and care for you both.
Don't take it personally - maybe they do it to every preggie woman
they see!
Your friend seems as though she's experiencing a different pregnancy to yours; she might be more prepared, more stoical amd have more of the classic symptoms - but that doesn't mean you can't celebrate your pregnancy, too!
I never had any morning sickness at all when I was pregnant, no baby clothes for the twins' arrival, and I was holed up with backache half of the time! Don't let it get to you, girl!
As for your little one being an accident...
Sometimes in life we just have to grit our teeth and enjoy the ride. My two were unplanned, but now I don't refer to them as accidents - I like to say that they're surprises! Who knows, maybe your baby will enrich your life. I know I'd be devastated if anything happened to mine.
Pregnancy is a wonderful thing. It's the tool which forges life from a tiny atom, a journey with twists and turns more magical than you could ever have imagined!
Good luck, and feel free to contact me (or reply) with any questions you may have!
Rock on, the pregnancy ladies!
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It's not that I'm angry, I'm irritated. If I could skip the pregnancy part and just have my kids, I'd do it.
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I understand that, but pregnancy is a beautiful thing!
Even strangers like to celebrate it - your expectance.
My brother in-law's fiancee is pregnant, and I almost feel rude to give advice - but I think pregnancy is amazing!
Enjoy it, girl!
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I still don't see how people see pregnancy as a miracle of life. It's pain and misery, so the pregnancy itself isn't that fantastic. Plus it's far from a miracle, it's reproduction.
The result, however. IS wonderful ^^
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When I say miracle, I use the term loosely.
Nurturing new life from nothing is beautiful.
I loved my pregnancy - but everyone's different, and that's okay too!
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Couldn't agree more :o Although I have no clue how it is to be pregnant. Seeing as I have a penis.
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Yes...I suppose your penis would be a bit of a barrier on the pregnancy front! ;O
But pregnancy is great (at least for me)!
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