That's true and that's what hits me hard. I'll never be a real man and I'm finding that very hard to accept.
I hope one day I'll be able to come to terms with it, one day I won't get so affected by what sex I was born as and one day I can just get over that I am indeed female.
But for the moment and the years I've lived my life, I'm unable to. Or maybe I'm not trying hard enough.
Either way, thanks for an honest opinion and perhaps I'll be able to embrace it in the future.
I was just telling you how it is. I don't think you'll get the full feeling of being a man, so you would be giving up your real female body for a fake male one, which I would say is a ripoff for you.
Wait for a few years to think about it before acting on it, just incase.
If you still wish to do it, then that is your choice.
If you want to transition, that is your right. If you want to identify as a man, that identity is just as valid as that of a cis man. There is no single "male" mentality, nor is there a single "female" mentality. There isn't a uniform male or female body, either; there's so much variation. If it will help you feel at home in your own skin,then I think transition is worth considering. I'd recommend that you find an LGBT-affirming counselor or psychologist to help you explore and process these feelings, and, if you decide you want to, transition. Whether you do or not, it's your choice and your feelings are valid. Your body is your body, and if you transition, there's absolutely nothing fake about that.
Is it normal I hate being born female?
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That's true and that's what hits me hard. I'll never be a real man and I'm finding that very hard to accept.
I hope one day I'll be able to come to terms with it, one day I won't get so affected by what sex I was born as and one day I can just get over that I am indeed female.
But for the moment and the years I've lived my life, I'm unable to. Or maybe I'm not trying hard enough.
Either way, thanks for an honest opinion and perhaps I'll be able to embrace it in the future.
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I was just telling you how it is. I don't think you'll get the full feeling of being a man, so you would be giving up your real female body for a fake male one, which I would say is a ripoff for you.
Wait for a few years to think about it before acting on it, just incase.
If you still wish to do it, then that is your choice.
If you want to transition, that is your right. If you want to identify as a man, that identity is just as valid as that of a cis man. There is no single "male" mentality, nor is there a single "female" mentality. There isn't a uniform male or female body, either; there's so much variation. If it will help you feel at home in your own skin,then I think transition is worth considering. I'd recommend that you find an LGBT-affirming counselor or psychologist to help you explore and process these feelings, and, if you decide you want to, transition. Whether you do or not, it's your choice and your feelings are valid. Your body is your body, and if you transition, there's absolutely nothing fake about that.