Thats the most annoying part, even people without kids do it in relationships. Like they completely forego their own personality and interests to like meld with some other person and lose their own identity. Gets worse when they have kids. I feel like to have a successful relationship with somebody you gotta give each other space and remain independent people, its the least healthy for kids in that situation. How is a kid going to develop any kind of independent personality when all they are allowed to be is a small part of a family "unit?"
IIN I hate all family related stuff?
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Thats the most annoying part, even people without kids do it in relationships. Like they completely forego their own personality and interests to like meld with some other person and lose their own identity. Gets worse when they have kids. I feel like to have a successful relationship with somebody you gotta give each other space and remain independent people, its the least healthy for kids in that situation. How is a kid going to develop any kind of independent personality when all they are allowed to be is a small part of a family "unit?"