Although it would be shitty thing to do and potentially ruin 2 families, you could threaten to tell his wife.
I wouldn't do that, because it harms people that had no part in this fiasco.
Here is what I would do. Sit him down tonight, explain to him it was a mistake, you both have spouses, and this needs to stop.
If/When he pushes for more, say you don't want to have to tell his wife, but how about 3 or 5 more times, and then we take this secret to our graves, fair enough?
Do not agree to 100, 50, or even 20. Make it something you can get done in the next 2 weeks max, and move on. If he pushes you for more, then threaten to tell his wife.
IIN I got drunk and accidently cheated on my husband?
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Although it would be shitty thing to do and potentially ruin 2 families, you could threaten to tell his wife.
I wouldn't do that, because it harms people that had no part in this fiasco.
Here is what I would do. Sit him down tonight, explain to him it was a mistake, you both have spouses, and this needs to stop.
If/When he pushes for more, say you don't want to have to tell his wife, but how about 3 or 5 more times, and then we take this secret to our graves, fair enough?
Do not agree to 100, 50, or even 20. Make it something you can get done in the next 2 weeks max, and move on. If he pushes you for more, then threaten to tell his wife.