I know I messed up, but trying to minimize damage.
If I agree to have sex with him again, 5 or 10 times, how do I know it will end there? Perhaps if I hold firm and tell him, he made a deal and has this many times left?
The number of times you agree on is not important, it can be 3, 5, 10, 20, 50. What's important, that he agrees to whatever limit you set in exchange for his silence. It's a verbal contractual agreement, and yes, you need to hold firm to the number you both agree on.
I just asked my co-worker what it would take, and he says 100 times. Is that reasonable? It seems high to me... He says once a business day for 1 year. I want to cry...
You should also tell him you are pregnant and you're pretty sure he gave you the clap. Tell him it may not be him tho since you sleep with 50 other guys in the office.
Also bite your top lip tonight and then let him know about your outbreak problem.
Tell your husband the truth. You made a mistake and you’re likely to get over this together. Then you can tell your husband how your co-worker is pressuring you into doing it again. It will take time for trust to be built but if you love him it’ll be fine at the end of it. Do the right thing or whatever you want maybe you even lust for this co-worker and don’t really love your husband. Shame on you if you continue this in my opinion. Honesty is the best policy
IIN I got drunk and accidently cheated on my husband?
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If I agree to have sex with him again, 5 or 10 times, how do I know it will end there? Perhaps if I hold firm and tell him, he made a deal and has this many times left?
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The number of times you agree on is not important, it can be 3, 5, 10, 20, 50. What's important, that he agrees to whatever limit you set in exchange for his silence. It's a verbal contractual agreement, and yes, you need to hold firm to the number you both agree on.
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I just asked my co-worker what it would take, and he says 100 times. Is that reasonable? It seems high to me... He says once a business day for 1 year. I want to cry...
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Your co-worker doesn't know math does he? Once a business day, assuming 5 days a week, would be 100/5 = 20 weeks, so by May you would be free...
I hope you don't work at an accounting office.
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Tell him 20 max... Take it or leave it and see what he says...
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He says I have to have sex with him after work TODAY, and we can discuss it... I guess I have no choice until I get a plan...
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You should also tell him you are pregnant and you're pretty sure he gave you the clap. Tell him it may not be him tho since you sleep with 50 other guys in the office.
Also bite your top lip tonight and then let him know about your outbreak problem.
Maybe he will lose interest.
The best defense is a good offense.
Use my plan. Get him to text you those details and then threaten to go to HR if he doesn't leave you alone.
If all else fails cut his dick off.
a woman work year is not the same as a mans. obviously you get sick days , and no fucking on your period , three weeks vacation. it adds up.
Tell your husband the truth. You made a mistake and you’re likely to get over this together. Then you can tell your husband how your co-worker is pressuring you into doing it again. It will take time for trust to be built but if you love him it’ll be fine at the end of it. Do the right thing or whatever you want maybe you even lust for this co-worker and don’t really love your husband. Shame on you if you continue this in my opinion. Honesty is the best policy
Tell your husband the truth. Your coworker won't stop and eventually your husband will know, minimise the damage and tell the truth.