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i have been married to my wife for five years and no kids,just recently me and my wife went to a doctor who revealed to me that she was a guy 4 years ago and now i cant look her in the eyes without gagging.
So you have been married for 5 years, and she was a man until 4 years ago. Meaning she was a man when you married her and became a woman during your marriage. So why did you need a doctor to tell you what you already knew?
So on your dates s/he had gender reassignment a year after you were married? Somehow I don't think so
I suppose you can always fuck him up the ass but as far as not knowing .. I don't see how possible that is to be honest . I think somewhere you have to know , vagina operation or not . I think if your husband or "wife" is making you sick you should leave and let them be with someone else .
You've been married five years, and instead of figuring out yourself while trying to make love, it took a doctor to determine that she is actually a man...
You people who are telling OP he should've known are very ignorant.
A shrink told me 30 years ago, when these operations were quite rare, that after surgery was completed the patients used to be sent off to a gyneocologist for an internal examination and that not one was picked up as being post-op! And what's more, not one of the so-called "women's specialists" noticed that none of them had a clitoris!
If this post is true, he's been totally conned
You married ██████████ WHOA!
I read a news article about an Italian guy, who had the same thing happen to him, his kids(biological 1st marriage) killed them selves and he mutilated himself because the government wouldn't grant him a divorse.
If you married a post-op transsexual, i'm not sure if your marriage still applies, depending on the local law, you can get you marriage annulled and go atart a family elsewhere, best to ask your family for help, that way they'll do a background check to avoid fishy situations in the future.
I feel sad for you, your reaction is natural, you were being betrayed for 5 whole year. I hope you the best of luck, get therapy after the divorce(if marriage isn't automatically annulled) this is not something you should be forced to deal with alone.
Don't let this destroy your will to start a family or get married, just be more vigilant next time.
Well, you must be the most observant of guys. At least 4 to 5 years ago.
No kids though? Ya think?