Today, there was this old strange man in starbucks and he kept staring at me and almost everyone else in line. He made very uncomfortable and I think he made the others uncomfortable too. I'm already paranoid and he just made it worse. I NEARLY flipped out on the man. I felt like screaming at him "Why the FUCK are you staring at me?" "Stop FUCKING staring at me!!!" I didn't.... Within a manner of minutes, I turned round, and the nice guy that helped me and the creepy guy, were both gone!!!! Now, I wonder if I hallucinated the both of them?!
I don't get uncomfortable if women look at me, but I will get uncomfortable if they stare at me for long periods at a time. I used to go to this after school program and at a certain time, I think it was around 6PM, the OLDER "kids" would come in. The vast majority of them scared me and they were MUCH more older than me. A lot of the guys were near 18 and they would often stare at me and ask me questions. They always made me uncomfortable even the ones who were CLOSER to my age. Once, an acquaintance was talking to one of the older guys, who kept staring at me, he asked him if he liked me! And the guy, was saying something about age, that I was "pretty" and some other random shit. I felt like punching all of them in the face! They would always ask me if they could take me out and I'd always say "NO", but they would ALWAYS demand to know "Why?". So, it got to the point where I had to literally lie to them and say that I was with someone. Then, they would act like they were offended and DEMAND to KNOW what may made up "boyfriend" looked like, if he lived around there, and what his name was!!!!
It got to be too FUCKING crazy! I hate to imagine if I REALLY had a boyfriend and they knew about them, what would they DO to him?!
That's exactly how I feel, situations like that almost everyday. And people believe I'm being neurotic about it.
I use to not say anything about it but it changed over time because I've had people taking advantage and feel me overacting and confronting them about it would prevent from it happening again. But as you can see there are some crazier people than me that may get physical/violent if they hear obscenities from someone like me...lol..So can't always speak up abruptly
Is it normal I get pissed off when guys stare at me?
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It really pisses me off too!
Today, there was this old strange man in starbucks and he kept staring at me and almost everyone else in line. He made very uncomfortable and I think he made the others uncomfortable too. I'm already paranoid and he just made it worse. I NEARLY flipped out on the man. I felt like screaming at him "Why the FUCK are you staring at me?" "Stop FUCKING staring at me!!!" I didn't.... Within a manner of minutes, I turned round, and the nice guy that helped me and the creepy guy, were both gone!!!! Now, I wonder if I hallucinated the both of them?!
I don't get uncomfortable if women look at me, but I will get uncomfortable if they stare at me for long periods at a time. I used to go to this after school program and at a certain time, I think it was around 6PM, the OLDER "kids" would come in. The vast majority of them scared me and they were MUCH more older than me. A lot of the guys were near 18 and they would often stare at me and ask me questions. They always made me uncomfortable even the ones who were CLOSER to my age. Once, an acquaintance was talking to one of the older guys, who kept staring at me, he asked him if he liked me! And the guy, was saying something about age, that I was "pretty" and some other random shit. I felt like punching all of them in the face! They would always ask me if they could take me out and I'd always say "NO", but they would ALWAYS demand to know "Why?". So, it got to the point where I had to literally lie to them and say that I was with someone. Then, they would act like they were offended and DEMAND to KNOW what may made up "boyfriend" looked like, if he lived around there, and what his name was!!!!
It got to be too FUCKING crazy! I hate to imagine if I REALLY had a boyfriend and they knew about them, what would they DO to him?!
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That's exactly how I feel, situations like that almost everyday. And people believe I'm being neurotic about it.
I use to not say anything about it but it changed over time because I've had people taking advantage and feel me overacting and confronting them about it would prevent from it happening again. But as you can see there are some crazier people than me that may get physical/violent if they hear obscenities from someone like me...lol..So can't always speak up abruptly