Is it normal I get intimidated by other transmen and Cis men?

You got very low self esteem bro. You try to act superior to everyone and be "alpha", but deep down inside you feel worthless and probably hate yourself. Deep insecurities. For that you need therapy my friend. Much bigger issue that can't be solved on the internet.

But here is a little tip. Most men around you couldn't care less how much you bench press, how tall you are, or how buff you look. But the moment you try to look like some cocky scumbag, they will start to notice, but in a negative way. Unless you want everyone to start hating you, deal with that issue. If I met someone like you and they started acting superior to me, trying to prove in some pathetic, twisted way they are better men. I will confront them and they will back down. Doesn't mean I'm gonna start fighting them right there and now, but I got my ways. I don't take shit from anyone. Treat people how you want to be treated. Gain some confidence, work out those issues and don't be an asshole. You'll enjoy life more.