You're having issues dealing with your masculinity my dude. I think it would be good to sort this out possibly with more therapy. Maybe you feel like being trans somehow makes you less of a man? If so that's complete bullshit. I honestly think you sound deep down a really nice guy and you need to realize these things aren't making you more masculine or look more confident and tough. These things make you look like an asshole tbh. But on a dead serious note though. You need to sort things out with your masculinity and confidence if anything. I would also apologize to your girl and if you want those people at the gym. Just so they know that that isn't the person you want to be anymore.
Why do you think I have to apologize to her? What did I do that has to make me apologize?
It's nice that you're seeing a good side in me. Most people think I'm an asshole. I'll try to work with my therapist about it. I was always like this pre-t but since I'm on testosterone I feel like I have to show it more. It's wrong but I never feel masculine enough. People know me as the tough guy but I don't see it that much in myself. I'm also bipolar which doesn't make it any better. Like I said thanks for telling me those things. I appreciate it.
I just think apologizing shows you're serious about changing in general. BTW it's no problem. I have dealt with worst people and tbh you really don't sound like a bad guy. I always try and think of things from everyone's POV even if it's hard. It helps keep everyone happy.
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You're having issues dealing with your masculinity my dude. I think it would be good to sort this out possibly with more therapy. Maybe you feel like being trans somehow makes you less of a man? If so that's complete bullshit. I honestly think you sound deep down a really nice guy and you need to realize these things aren't making you more masculine or look more confident and tough. These things make you look like an asshole tbh. But on a dead serious note though. You need to sort things out with your masculinity and confidence if anything. I would also apologize to your girl and if you want those people at the gym. Just so they know that that isn't the person you want to be anymore.
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Why do you think I have to apologize to her? What did I do that has to make me apologize?
It's nice that you're seeing a good side in me. Most people think I'm an asshole. I'll try to work with my therapist about it. I was always like this pre-t but since I'm on testosterone I feel like I have to show it more. It's wrong but I never feel masculine enough. People know me as the tough guy but I don't see it that much in myself. I'm also bipolar which doesn't make it any better. Like I said thanks for telling me those things. I appreciate it.
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I just think apologizing shows you're serious about changing in general. BTW it's no problem. I have dealt with worst people and tbh you really don't sound like a bad guy. I always try and think of things from everyone's POV even if it's hard. It helps keep everyone happy.