You are right. It is possible to be alone and happy. Being single doesn't have to equal lonely. I am a serious biker. That comes with quite a social life as where ever you go you know other bikers or strangers come up to you. I can travel for a week and almost always have a place to stay. There is always some biker meals, drinks, trip, family days, whatever. If you have any other hobby or passion it will be the same I am sure. Realtionshits are not the be all and all. Much more to do in life.
I have a long list of women as well on my phone. Some I can sleep with, some just friends. Some just want to go for rides, except I dont take them on dirt. If I need a partner, easy to find one. The ones that want a relationshit with me I keep contact limited to not lead them on. Point is I have no interest in a relationshit yet have an active social life and even sex when I want it.
I have had plenty of girlfriends, some live in and an x, and I have kids. Past few years single have been some of the best ever. More time with my kids, more time to do what I want after years of sacrificing for women. And of course far more money since Im not wasting it trying to keep some bird happy with fancy restaurants, BS holidays where I am not riding, and basically trying to make someone happy when then they can never be happy. Best to avoid people that need someone else to make them happy.
IIN i gave up on dating
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You are right. It is possible to be alone and happy. Being single doesn't have to equal lonely. I am a serious biker. That comes with quite a social life as where ever you go you know other bikers or strangers come up to you. I can travel for a week and almost always have a place to stay. There is always some biker meals, drinks, trip, family days, whatever. If you have any other hobby or passion it will be the same I am sure. Realtionshits are not the be all and all. Much more to do in life.
I have a long list of women as well on my phone. Some I can sleep with, some just friends. Some just want to go for rides, except I dont take them on dirt. If I need a partner, easy to find one. The ones that want a relationshit with me I keep contact limited to not lead them on. Point is I have no interest in a relationshit yet have an active social life and even sex when I want it.
I have had plenty of girlfriends, some live in and an x, and I have kids. Past few years single have been some of the best ever. More time with my kids, more time to do what I want after years of sacrificing for women. And of course far more money since Im not wasting it trying to keep some bird happy with fancy restaurants, BS holidays where I am not riding, and basically trying to make someone happy when then they can never be happy. Best to avoid people that need someone else to make them happy.