It's funny how everyone thinks that you need a partner to be happy. It's 100% possible to be alone and happy.
I will go on to state though... I have the same mentality as you yet I found myself seeing someone anyway. The game seems so old, worn out, my heart is not exactly bursting with joy over the prospect of "a new love" but that hasn't stopped him from giving up on me and for some reason, I feel like I shouldn't shun the prospect of having a partner.
I've had my heart broken and hopes taken from me many many many many many many many times (how many? many.) but I am starting to think that maybe I should not resign myself to loneliness yet and I don't think you should either.
You are right. It is possible to be alone and happy. Being single doesn't have to equal lonely. I am a serious biker. That comes with quite a social life as where ever you go you know other bikers or strangers come up to you. I can travel for a week and almost always have a place to stay. There is always some biker meals, drinks, trip, family days, whatever. If you have any other hobby or passion it will be the same I am sure. Realtionshits are not the be all and all. Much more to do in life.
I have a long list of women as well on my phone. Some I can sleep with, some just friends. Some just want to go for rides, except I dont take them on dirt. If I need a partner, easy to find one. The ones that want a relationshit with me I keep contact limited to not lead them on. Point is I have no interest in a relationshit yet have an active social life and even sex when I want it.
I have had plenty of girlfriends, some live in and an x, and I have kids. Past few years single have been some of the best ever. More time with my kids, more time to do what I want after years of sacrificing for women. And of course far more money since Im not wasting it trying to keep some bird happy with fancy restaurants, BS holidays where I am not riding, and basically trying to make someone happy when then they can never be happy. Best to avoid people that need someone else to make them happy.
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It's funny how everyone thinks that you need a partner to be happy. It's 100% possible to be alone and happy.
I will go on to state though... I have the same mentality as you yet I found myself seeing someone anyway. The game seems so old, worn out, my heart is not exactly bursting with joy over the prospect of "a new love" but that hasn't stopped him from giving up on me and for some reason, I feel like I shouldn't shun the prospect of having a partner.
I've had my heart broken and hopes taken from me many many many many many many many times (how many? many.) but I am starting to think that maybe I should not resign myself to loneliness yet and I don't think you should either.
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You are right. It is possible to be alone and happy. Being single doesn't have to equal lonely. I am a serious biker. That comes with quite a social life as where ever you go you know other bikers or strangers come up to you. I can travel for a week and almost always have a place to stay. There is always some biker meals, drinks, trip, family days, whatever. If you have any other hobby or passion it will be the same I am sure. Realtionshits are not the be all and all. Much more to do in life.
I have a long list of women as well on my phone. Some I can sleep with, some just friends. Some just want to go for rides, except I dont take them on dirt. If I need a partner, easy to find one. The ones that want a relationshit with me I keep contact limited to not lead them on. Point is I have no interest in a relationshit yet have an active social life and even sex when I want it.
I have had plenty of girlfriends, some live in and an x, and I have kids. Past few years single have been some of the best ever. More time with my kids, more time to do what I want after years of sacrificing for women. And of course far more money since Im not wasting it trying to keep some bird happy with fancy restaurants, BS holidays where I am not riding, and basically trying to make someone happy when then they can never be happy. Best to avoid people that need someone else to make them happy.