Is it normal i find "kinky" things weird?

What may look painful to you, may not feel painful to the person who is experiencing it.

For instance I really, really like it when my SO holds me from behind, with her hands kept pulled way back deep into my stomach so extremely tight that she's almost snapping me in half. I understand this might look painful to an observer, and I recognize that getting held super-tight this way would probably feel painful to many people. But to me it doesn't feel painful at all, it feels ecstatically overwhelmingly good, so good I can't find the words to describe it.

If it felt painful to me I would never have gotten into it, because I don't like physical pain any more than the next person.

And as someone noted above, these things often have a childhood basis. In my case it comes from getting held on laps that way a lot when I was a kid, blame a couple of older teenage girls in my environment.

Such a kink once acquired persists for life. Do I find my fetish weird? Much of the time, no; some of the time, yes. At this stage in life, what counts is that my woman is fine with doing it to me. Still, sometimes I struggle with it.

You're normal.

I watched a movie about a masochist guy, he might have even performed masochist 'stunts' or something? But he was really sick as a child, and also as an adult, but I think a lot of this stuff has a weird childhood basis....or something. I don't know.
You're weird.

I enjoy having my ass slapped. Is it painful? Slightly. Is it thrilling? Yes. I don't understand those "truly weird" fetishes either, but I understand that other people are aroused by different things. As long as it follows the three S's, Safe, Sane, and conSensual, I don't give a crap if other people do it.

That's why it's called a "kink". It's not generally considered "normal", most people have one or two or a few.

We are not just rational and logic. Our minds work to a large extent at an unconscious level, which is the result of impulses we have to control because they do not agree with society rules

Its called good pain uno hurting oh so good, btw piss tastes delicious and feeling a hand in the ass is amazung and a fist is orgasmic, itd only hurt if your w begginer really cuz your ass wint stretch enough.. anyways and scat omg so much fun dirty i know im not proud of that desire but hey i love it, you just need to open your mind more

That's why they call it "kinky", because it's obviously going to sound weird to some people.

Well you are clearly not a very intelligent individual if you cant figure it out.

The thing is all people have different things they are into. What you are saying is as stupid as saying "Im a girl and not into girls. How can girls be into other girls, I mean omg they dont have a penis". Yeah well not everyone wants to suck on a penis as pleasant as you might find it.

There is also different category's of kink.

Violent-Bondage, whips, chains, control, dominance, rape scenes, electrical play, knife play
corky-Furry, Mascots, ecs
ingesting-Vomit, piss, poop
Fetishes-An object that creates arousal that normally would not

What each person is into has to do with their personality. For example someone into S&M might have a high pain threshold and might be an adrenaline junky so have to go very far to achieve the same kind of high. They might have a thing for psychopaths and the idea of being kidnapped. They might enjoy pain and intense feelings since its hard for them to feel things.

The reason you dont get it is simple. You are stupid. Stupid people are not capable of seeing another side of things or capable of figuring out anything that does not make sense to them. There is generally a psychological reason behind this type of stuff.

Though personally I dont understand the urine, poop, Vomit fetish. However I would also not do Oral. The reason being I find it incredibly unsanitary and I am a very sanitary person with many OCD tendency's. So that might just be something particular to me. I also freak out when I touch caterpillars since I find the consistency disturbing.

I personally like stuff like intense work outs, pain and intense rides(coasters). The reason I do is I have a very high level I need to reach to have reaction. Though I have had to train myself to not react under extreme pressure from a young age so I have extremely good self control. The issue with this is I dont feel a lot unless is extreme. If its a work out I need to sweat or the work out was worthless, if its stuff like relationship I need to be psychologically thrilled or I get bored.

What do animals do, sniff each others butts, piss on things to mark each others territory, piss and shit started to become a problem for humans when there was to much of it and it made us sick then we started viewing it as a bad thing.