Is it normal i find it hard to believe i'm in the minority here?

I'm not gonna name names, but there's this user who just is so obsessed with his looks and I really don't get it. I DO get that what people find attractive is different person to person, so I understand that people will find him attractive and that's all well and good. I just can't understand how people keep stroking his ego about it. I can't be the only person who finds him plain at best. That's just if we're talking physically. Personality certainly takes several points off.

I am aware that if this posts gets through, it will only serve to stroke his ego. IDGAF.

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  • dom180

    I tend to avoid this type of arrogance and compliment fishing. A person's looks are not a part of their being worth judging them on, especially when other criteria on which to judge them are more forthcoming.

    Rightly or wrongly, people who draw attention to their looks tend to draw attention away from the things they have to say.

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  • Crusades

    I'm pretty sure Op doesn't really have a problem with ItDuz's arrogance or ego, but with the fact that he finds males more beautiful than females.

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  • disthing

    It could be that you're in the minority or it could be that those who feel the same as you don't care enough to mention it, giving the impression that you're the only one.

    Some people enjoy indulging other people's vanity, even in a playful way. It's probably a sort of reciprocal attention seeking (a.k.a. circle jerk).

    I'd try not to let it bother you.

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    • anti-hero

      More of a chain jerk... hand jobs across America... or Britain or whatever.

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  • If you don't mention ItDuz by name, how will he defend himself?

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    • Wow, wow, wow. Bit quick in assuming it's me! Didn't you read? This person is not attracted to whoever they are talking about, and they explain the person to be average at best...Clearly not me they're talking about, I'm drop-dead gorgeous and adorable. :3

      ;)

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        It's funny cuz that was MY first thought tooXD

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        • D'aww, you charmer. ;)

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      • Riddler

        You do seem to be a beautiful man but you seem to let it go to your head.

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        • I do believe myself to be beautiful, and I do think quite a few think the same, however I don't expect everyone to feel the same about it, and I'm fine with that. :)

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    • shuggy-chan

      no this is about me obviously

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      • kingofcarrotflowers

        Wow hang on hang on, how do we know op doesn't have a thing for bearded fat guys ;) haha

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        • :O True.

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      • As if. Everyone out there wants a piece of the Shuggy, so to say this is about you is to imply someone out there doesn't, which is far from the truth.

        ...Now how about we go and do something for that IIN fan-fiction person to make a story about. ;)

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        • shuggy-chan

          not EW doesnt like me, that one person

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          • E.W...He's behind this, I know it! >:O

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  • ScooterNyne

    I love how people complain about how "society brings everyone down and makes them feel like they are inferior." And then you preach, "be happy with who you are". And then ItDuz comes along and openly expresses his appreciation and satisfaction with his own appearance and you all throw a bitch fit. It's amazing really.

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  • jeebley

    I always thought it was more of a running joke than anything else. This user (who shall not be named!!) seems like he genuinely IS really into his looks etc. But any comments he makes about it also seem like a humorous, over-the-top kind of arrogance. And if this mystery user actually is being 100% serious and there's not a hint of tongue-in-cheek; well that's still pretty funny, to me anyway.

    So I think you might be taking it a bit too seriously. And the real question might be, why does it bother you so much?
    That's just how I see it anyway.

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    • You think muh beauty is a joke?...How the hell do you sleep at night, you cretin!? >:|

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      • jeebley

        You're very pretty I meant!

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        • Nah, nah, nah. You said it now. You'll know the wrath of a thousand burning suns, you bitch!!!

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  • Shrunk

    wait...what if itduz actually wrote this story just to troll his fans? heh

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    • I knew someone would assume that, however I assure you this was not made by me. :)

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      • Shrunk

        :P Just checking.
        As for what the OP is wondering, from what I can tell you have a good personality & rational beliefs, no matter if you are "vain" (personally I don't see a problem with being satisfied with one's own appearance). Those "stroking your ego" are probably just admiring your confidence c;
        and/or "basking in reflected glory"...

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        • Yeah, I was open to making screen caps of my profile to show it wasn't me if my word didn't suffice, however I am glad that it did.

          Thanks for your kind words. I do believe myself to be attracted, and I do admire my own appearance over everyone elses (I don't expect anyone to feel the same about my appearance). That aside, I understand some don't find my type of appearance as attractive, so them not finding me attractive does exactly harm me in the way they may have assumed it would.

          But again, thank you for your kind words. :P

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    "Nobody pays positive attention to me on here and I hate it, so fuck anyone who does... Duz.".

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    • "Fuck anybody who Duz*" ;)

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  • Yeah, screw whoever that fucker is. He sounds like a complete jackass to me, and I can definitely see that he would have an ego if people kept stroking it, like some teenage high-school girl bitch.

    ...Wait a minute.

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    • GustavoGutiérrez

      You are one very strange fucker and you are missing a reality.

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      • There's more than one reality? o_0

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

          to me lookswise yall remind me of thatall gay dude secretary on law n oreder suv

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          • Don't watch it, so no idea who he is. Wouldn't be the first person saying I look like someone from TV...>_>

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            • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

              well yall dont remind me from noone on hee haw thats fer sure

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  • Aliceee93

    :O he's the sex of iin. Assuming this post is about itduz ;)

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    • D'aww, someone didn't like your comment. :/ That hurts my ego. Some stroke it! Quick!

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      • Aliceee93

        Someone dislikes me ha.

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        • disthing

          Probably more that they dislike you giving a metaphorical handjob to ItDuz.

          Sensitive types on the internet.

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          • Aliceee93

            Well they'll get over it.
            Duz is my bitch <3

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            • disthing

              Or iz Aliz Duz's Bizzle?

              I suggest you provide him with a son because he wouldn't appreciate a female-dominated household :P

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    An adult complaing about another user? I can't stop laughing. He must of really affected your life badly to the point where you're a making post about it. Lol.

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    • Oh, I'm so telling on you right now. Moooooooooom!

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Nooooo! Don't tell mummy! She'll hang me upside down with jumper cables and force feed me boiled cupcakes that have been sitting outside since last August! Have you no shame?!

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        • I have none. >:D MWAHAHAHAHA. MOOOOOOOOOM!!!

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            You're so cruel.
            :(

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  • cutie395

    Real friendships aren't built on vanity so the people being nice are probably his frenemies. It's easier to fake liking a vain person than it is to stand up to them cuz they totally go psycho when they aren't worshipped.

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    • First comment of your account. Welcome to IIN!

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  • Avant-Garde

    Beauty is eye of the beholder.

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  • You are in the minority here, cuz ItDuz and shuggy-Chan are a couple of aesthetically pleasing hunks! Haha. I suppose you would call it feeding egos when I call itduz a hottie mchottiepants or shuggy totes adorbs, but I dont care too much about it; I find them cute. Its my opinion and you have yours

    its the internet, I can go around saying "dat ass" or "you are attractive" to whoever I want :). Yay anonymity

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    • Well I know someone that's getting an ItDuz and a Shuggy wrapped up in a bow for Christmas. ;)

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      • I'll just sit back and enjoy myself as I slide into the negative thumbs just for stating my opinion. Weeeee! Lol.

        And I fully expect you to change your profile picture to one of you in an ugly Christmas sweater with a bow on your head this holiday season now, Mr!

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        • Comes with the teritory of complimenting me in any way. ;)

          A user messaged me saying something that caught my interest...Is the user who made this female or male, because that may clear up the intent behind this post. Lol.

          Just the sweater and bow? ;)

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          • And one shoe. You'll look into the camera and sadly say, "I lost my shoe".

            And hmmm yes, that would be interesting to know.

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            • Reminds me of the rabbit foot episode of Supernatural when Sam looses one of his shoes.

              Sweater, bow, and one shoe. Got it. ;)

              Yeah, assumptions have already been made as to who it is, although out of all the users, I can't really just assume one of them, it'd be unfair. :P

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        • shuggy-chan

          I'll have a bow on, but not on my head >8]

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          • 8D haha. Merry Christmas to me!

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  • green_boogers

    Thumb him down for vanity.

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  • iEatZombies_

    You know damn well the answer to your question. He exists- it's better you just deal with it. Otherwise you'll find yourself irritated quite often.

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    • I exist? I'ma real boy! :D

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