Well you can't help feeling repulsed if that's how you feel, as long as you don't have any prejudice towards trans people. I do think trans people should tell any new partners within the first few dates that they're trans. I can understand why they wouldn't want to, in case the guy would see them differently when they are just like any other woman, but it's dishonest if the only reason they don't tell is because they think the guy will have a problem with it. And the relationship would be founded on a secret then, which is unhealthy anyway.
IIN I felt deceived and repulsed when I found out that I was dating a trans
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Well you can't help feeling repulsed if that's how you feel, as long as you don't have any prejudice towards trans people. I do think trans people should tell any new partners within the first few dates that they're trans. I can understand why they wouldn't want to, in case the guy would see them differently when they are just like any other woman, but it's dishonest if the only reason they don't tell is because they think the guy will have a problem with it. And the relationship would be founded on a secret then, which is unhealthy anyway.