I agree with Musician please don't be so vague about it, he is just looking at it from a practical perspective which might seem insensitive but will probably be logical in the end (for him at least). Even though you are unsure of this particular situation you don't seem like someone with self-esteem issues, so just be honest and put yourself out there and you will find out soon enough. If he keeps being distant you will at least have peace of mind. When guys do such stuff they are pervs and pathetic, but if women know what they want and go for it they are confident ;)
Well with that attitude you are surely better off really knowing what he feels.
Obviously there could be a million reasons why he didn't reply or show assertiveness yet, but if he really doesn't care (if that's the case it should be clear soon enough) don't take it personal, it's a chemistry thing. (unless you are a real beast to look at, which I am not assuming for the sake of the problem at hand:P)
Is it normal I feel somewhat rejected from this? Long topic
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I agree with Musician please don't be so vague about it, he is just looking at it from a practical perspective which might seem insensitive but will probably be logical in the end (for him at least). Even though you are unsure of this particular situation you don't seem like someone with self-esteem issues, so just be honest and put yourself out there and you will find out soon enough. If he keeps being distant you will at least have peace of mind. When guys do such stuff they are pervs and pathetic, but if women know what they want and go for it they are confident ;)
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Awe. Thanks. Yeah I know I don't have a bad self-esteem. I sure do care about myself but not to the extent where I don't care about others either.
But yes. I guess it would be better to find out if he wouldn't answer back to me or not if I bother to call him.
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Well with that attitude you are surely better off really knowing what he feels.
Obviously there could be a million reasons why he didn't reply or show assertiveness yet, but if he really doesn't care (if that's the case it should be clear soon enough) don't take it personal, it's a chemistry thing. (unless you are a real beast to look at, which I am not assuming for the sake of the problem at hand:P)