Is it normal i feel sad about being a virgin?
I know this may seem like an overused question, but in my circumstances, I'm really starting to feel the weight of being a virgin at at a late age (I don't want to put my real age here) really weigh me down. In the course of my life I've had 2 girls so to speak. One I dated for about a month, and the other was about for 5 months. I know what its like to be with a girl, but I never really got to experience what every other person at my school has. It's just that lately, every kid at my school seems to be getting a lot of action in comparison to me. Today, I sat a table with 4 guys who are my age who have had sex and were sharing their experiences, and I felt like a complete loser because these guys are what you would call "nerdy" and "unattractive" and I'm fit. I don't have a big ego, but I go to the gym, and I wear nice clothes, but nothing is attracted to me. Even the kid who I really dislike, tells me about how much him and his girlfriend have had sex, and he's a complete loser, he has no friends in our school at all. I just feel like a complete loser, because kids are obviously at the mature age where they decide to have sex, but everyone is having it and I just feel like I'll never get the chance to experience it, and I know it's stupid but I honestly feel pretty upset about it. It's really hard knowing that guys who are less attractive than me are having more success, and I feel like I'm a nice and charming guy. It really solidified today in one of my classes, because there is this group of guys and girls who all fuck each other and just chat about it all the time, and I have to sit there and pretend like it doesn't make me feel insecure and less of a man. Just for side notes, my penis isn't a microdick or anything that makes me fearful of having sex, I just feel like I'll never get to experience it whilst everyone is having the time of their lives. Any help would be appreciated. I know most of you will say its normal, but I would appreciate legitimate responses on how I can handle my sanity right now.