Is it normal i feel like i'm not wanted anywhere?

Ever since I began working night shift I've noticed that whenever I'm around people they seem to want me to go away. I went to hang out with some friends and one of the people with them was happy and cheery until she was me and then she said "Oh he's coming?" Afterwards she seemed to be forcin her happiness and that night during video games some of the other people kept lookin over at me like I was a freak and I had no business being there...I feel like they like me being gone and I have no right to socialize with anyone even at work...

Is It Normal?
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  • Make fun of her, she obviously has superiority complex issues. Tell her you don't like her, and be done with it. I'm sure she will finally tell you how she feels after you piss her off.
    OR make her laugh, not creepy, but make sure it's funny. If you can make people laugh, they feel more comfortable around you.
    Do you smell? How are your mannerisms? Do you dress weird?

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  • Im pretty sure somebody finds you interesting,if not try to be less talkative or a bit more friendly.

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    • I've tried bein less talkative idk...I guess I just don't mix well with people

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  • It used to be like that for me in high school.

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  • Are you like a flea or a tick or a disease of some sorrt?

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  • I know what you mean. When I was working part-time at a school I felt that some of the teachers were looking down on me but as this little part-time job was not something I really needed and that I was going to quit I began to act as if all those people were just shit and they felt it because I am good at this.

    In your case I'm sure that the situation will get better with time.

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  • Everybody has a place in this world. If it's possible try talking to the people you work with individually. Clearly that one person didn't mind being around you. Build up a friendship with each of them on their own time, so then when you're with them together perhaps you have a connection with each of them. Friendship can take time, but if you're willing to put in the effort then maybe a good thing might come out of it in the end.

    Alternatively you could just not take the night shift. If this is not an option then I think it is best that you at least try to befriend them. I wouldn't suggest talking less, I would suggest the method from the above paragraph. Good luck, you sound nice and nobody deserves to feel like they're unwanted and alone.

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