Is it normal i feel inferior for still being a virgin?

i try not to let it get to me that much but im the only person in my friends group who is still a virgin (im 19). they all think that its hilarious and that ive got problems or something. ive heard people say its no big deal but i cant help but feel that its because im unnatractive or have a bad personality or something. im not a virgin by choice or anything and im certainly not proud of it. maybe i have some kind of mental disorder? a hormone defficiency?

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Comments ( 14 )
  • Snakeplisken

    Duuuude when you finally have sex your gonna explode because of all that tension building up! It will be one of the greatest moments of your life!

    Oh and your "friends" sound like a bunch of dicks, don't hang around those kind of people

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  • SoularWind

    The he'll are you talking about virginity is what separates us from the whores.

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  • CreativeThinker

    Infact u r an Asshole....Accept this truth...thats it

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  • BE PROUD! There is nothing wrong with you. The problem lies with the rest of society, who treat sex like a game. But they suffer for it, let me tell you.

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  • kariann789

    Hun I was 21 the first time I had sex, and have only been with my husband to this day. To me it wasn't about religion although I am Christian, but I wanted my first time to be special and every other time after that.

    I'm glad I waited and regardless of what anyone on here says you will be too, especially if you know that the guy is still going to be a big part of your life and not disappear two weeks later.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Its not as fun as they say it is. It gets old after awhile. Its just a bunch of bull shit so dont feel bad.

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  • Ibelievethis

    With friends like those you certainly do not need enemies. It will happen for you honest, oh and B.T.W how do you honestly know you are the only 1 out your group who is still a virgin? people can lie you know x

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  • darkprince

    no ur awesome.. dont let peer pressure make u do somethin u will regret later on... society has become immoral

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  • misinformant

    I can totally relate to this,it's normal, I am certain of this fact, it's because of what society thinks towards sex, don't worry you'll find someone

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  • tjb

    Just because you didn't throw away your virginity doesn't mean you have a problem. Perhaps you are one of the few people left with their moral compass in tact. Some people don't see their virginity as sacred, which is fine, but others see it as something special, which is okay too.

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  • Drigerpogo

    There are girls out there who wished that they had the choice of being a virgin. Not to sound epic or anything. Just tell them that you're saving your goods for something worth it! Why? Because YOU'RE worth it! If you feel comfortable with not having sex, then cool. Being pressured should not ever effect that though.

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  • DaydreamBeliever

    I agree, your friends are twats.
    It's easier said than done, but try and find some new ones who'll respect you.

    Nothing is wrong with you and you're perfectly normal. You're still young, so don't feel pressured or like you should have lost your virginity by now. Everyone is different! There's no need to lower your standards.

    And while the sexual tension builds, invest in a vibe! You can buy them pretty discreetly off the interwebs.

    There'll be men out there waiting to treasure you. Chances are when you stop looking, they'll pop up. Good luck. :) x

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  • SuperBenzid

    I was a virgin till I was 21 and then I started dating a lot of girls and being a bit of a manwhore lol. Honestly I wouldn't worry about as long as your not a basement shut in it will happen for you. The less you worry about it the more likely you are to develop sexual relationships in my experience.

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  • PinkSneakersProductions

    Hey, if you'd like to share your story on a new documentary about teen/ young adult issues like yours check our profile out to contact us... and btw when you finally find someone right and it'll happen and not feel rush.

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