Is it normal i feel guilty for my sexual attractions?
I've currently have been feeling a rollercoaster of emotions for something that happened to me today. One of my friends asked if I wanted to go out with him and I rejected him because I was already with someone else of whom he happened to know. He then called me out and said I was a self-hater because I've never been in a relationship with someone of my own ethnicity and I was brainwashed by the media.
I'm African American and I've only dated Caucasian men. 99% of the time I've found men who have a more huskier build to be attractive, including a hairy body, beards, bald/short hair, etc. I've been attracted to mostly men of all ethnicities (including my own) who fit that description. Although I tend to think these features look more attractive on those with lighter skin tone guys and even though darker skin tone turns me off (just like every other body type turns me off), I wouldn't rule out dating someone with said features if I found something else about them that would turn me on just because of their skin color or body type or whatever.
But what he said really bothered me and made me feel guilty about what I'm attracted...