Is it normal i feel/fear my older sister may sleep around a lot?

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Is it normal I feel my older sister used to sleep around a lot, I remember her going to night clubs a lot like when she was let's say between 20 and 27 mainly Saturday nights, she would almost always get home late or early morning, does this mean she slept around? What else would she be doing there? I don't go to nightclubs (not really for me) is it really like that at nightclubs? Do ppl just hook up like that or is it over exaggerated? please help me, it's just a thought I have, I would be pretty damn dissapointed if this was true with her, I once remember her removing her shoes when she got home and had like a look on her face like she had had some cheeky slutty fun for some reason, this is just the impression I got from that. Please help. She would also regularly go to this stupid bar on a Sunday evening, how could I know if she "got around"?

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dirtybirdy

7 years ago | pl

It's really none of your business.

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DublinGirl

7 years ago | pl

Your worried about what your elder sister got up to when she was 'let's say' 20-27 years old? And, clearly, she's even older now.

Concern about a vulnerable young sibling is understandable but this kind of retrospective analysis about someone who was well into adulthood at the time doesn't warrant scrutiny, even by her 'concerned' younger sister.

How would you like it if your sister put out a post on here asking us what we thought about her unsubstantiated suspicions of your 'sluttish' behaviour?

The best help anyone can give you is to urge you to let this go. Whatever your sister got up to - and still gets up to - is her business. Just accept and love her for who she is.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago | pl
  
  I do love her no matter what but just wouldn't sit well with me you know, I'm sure plenty of people out there understand me and where I'm coming from.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    7 years ago | pl
    
    In what way would it not sit well with you?
    
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RoseIsabella

7 years ago | pl

Why do you want to know whether or not your sister used to sleep around? Please be specific.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago | pl
  
  I don't know rose just don't like the thought of it, wouldn't change anything, we have a good relationship and she's cool to hang out with but yeah, I don't think anyone wants their daughter/sister to be sleeping around right? the risks of diseases and shit, and just the thought of her behaving in that way.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    7 years ago | pl
    
    The reason I ask is, because wanting to know cause you're worried about disease or crisis pregnancy is one thing, but wanting to know because you're afraid she's dishonoring your family in some way is something entirely different.
    
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Anonymous Post Author

7 years ago | pl

Much of it

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Anonymous Post Author

7 years ago | pl

I'm her brother by the way and I feel
It's normal to be concerned and to not want her to be sleeping around and shit

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- RoseIsabella
  
  7 years ago | pl
  
  As long as you don't feel it's your right to punish or discipline her in anyway, because it's not your right. Men are not superior to women and cultures that see men as superior and believe that women must be submissive to men are backward and inferior.
  
  I'm actually conservative in a lot of ways and some people have accused me of being a prude, but I think it's not your place to tell her what do just because you're the male sibling. I think it's normal and healthy for you to be concerned for her health, welfare and safety, but not normal if you think you hold authority over her I any way.
  
  I don't think being overly promiscuous is good for anyone regardless of whether the person is male or female.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    7 years ago | pl
    
    I don't feel it's right to punish or disclipine at all, she's not breaking the law or anything so yeah, would be just be slightly dissapointing and i agree men are not inferior we are all people but yeah just hope she hasn't done too kin of it I guess
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      7 years ago | pl
      
      Men are inferior? No I was not stating that men are inferior in any way, but rather that men are not superior to women, and vice versa of course. I wanted to get that message across clearly, because there are people who come to this site from all over the world, and some countries have cultures that are disproportionately patriarchal, and oftentimes downright misogynistic.
      
      I want to get something clear on your part. Is this potential promiscuity a current issue or is it more of a past tense thing? Additionally, I'm curious as to how you'd feel if the proverbial shoe were on the other foot. How would you feel if your sister were concerned that you might be acting promiscuously? Would it be okay for you to be promiscuous?
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago | pl
        
        Your cool and reasonable on here :-)
        
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago | pl
        
        Oops
        Sorry i meant superior lol men are not superior,
        We are all equal, it's a past tense thing
        
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Anonymous Post Author

7 years ago | pl

She is really cool and I feel kind of bad to write this but yeah I just don't like the thought of it.

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Anonymous Post Author

7 years ago | pl

Ouch, harsh replies lol

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Rusty-Rider

7 years ago | pl

She was with me and we had normal slutty fun together.

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mysistersshadow

7 years ago | pl

Please help? What do you want help with? Sounds like shes adult and can do what she please. I don't see problem with her so whats your problem?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago | pl
  
  Just really wish she hadn't
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago | pl
  
  Don't know just don't like the damn thought of it, I'm not a fan of this sleeping around business at all!!!!! To me it should be an act that gets performed while in relationships after committed a fair bit not just sleep around like a dirty slut/whore!!! Giving up her body to random a, perhaps it's my upbringing or just what I believe in Just craps me people who do that and especially the ones who boast and think they are top shit or something cause of this.
  
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TPR.H

7 years ago | pl

Yea its not ur business

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