Is it normal I feel bad for this woman at my work?

I thinks that it's very kind of you to want to help, but unfortunately, you've come across an "emotional vampire". These people thrive off the sympathy of others. They have developed unhealthy ways of getting attention. No self respecting person would allow themselves to be obviously pitied by strangers. Any solutions or suggestions to help her will be brushed off. She knows very well that it makes you feel good, superior and kind. She's only interested in your eyes,ears, comforting words and valuable time. The ONLY person that can make a difference in YOUR life is YOU! People who waste your time, waste your life.