Thanks for your response. I completely understand where you're coming from, however, the agreement was a choice he made. He too did not want me to end the session with another man (but himself) if we were to engage with another man.
You are correct in a sense that I may have wanted him to prove himself, but in saying that, I wouldn't have gotten upset to that extent if he didn't want this himself then break it.
To me, it shows there would be more trust if we both could stick to our rules. Surely I felt somewhat insecure watching someone I love interact with another woman, but at the same time, it was incredibly sexy to watch and I would not cause any drama over it since we both agreed on giving this a go.
Is it normal? I encouraged my bf to engage in a 3some then got hurt?
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
Hi Nikki,
Thanks for your response. I completely understand where you're coming from, however, the agreement was a choice he made. He too did not want me to end the session with another man (but himself) if we were to engage with another man.
You are correct in a sense that I may have wanted him to prove himself, but in saying that, I wouldn't have gotten upset to that extent if he didn't want this himself then break it.
To me, it shows there would be more trust if we both could stick to our rules. Surely I felt somewhat insecure watching someone I love interact with another woman, but at the same time, it was incredibly sexy to watch and I would not cause any drama over it since we both agreed on giving this a go.