Can I get a restrianing order if I do not have thier full name? They keep leaving viocemails saying streets they saw me on. I keep blocking thier number but they do not want to leave me be. They can not move into my new place. I am the one on the lease, not them.
You can identify the issue to the police and ask them to talk to him (call the non-emergency number). Most police departments will do so although it may take a few days. The police can also then likely provide you with his full name and likely address.
They may also be able to provide other suggestions that are appropriate to your local community (different communities have different resources).
I'd also suggest that you change your phone number - and do not leave a forwarding number. You can notify your friends, family, employer, etc. of the new number after you get it.
Keep a positive attitude... and if nothing else works... just ignore him.
I understand. You can still get a restraining order in most countries.
Another option is that if you get a little $ ahead... move elsewhere (only don't make it obvious). I have done several moves where all I took with me was an overnight travel bag... (as if I'm visiting a friend or going on a business trip) and returned later (at different times) to recover more of my stuff. No massive move to catch their attention.
The several times I did it I could afford to pay a few weeks of double rent - and once a month.
IIN I dropped my homeless freind?
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Can I get a restrianing order if I do not have thier full name? They keep leaving viocemails saying streets they saw me on. I keep blocking thier number but they do not want to leave me be. They can not move into my new place. I am the one on the lease, not them.
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You can identify the issue to the police and ask them to talk to him (call the non-emergency number). Most police departments will do so although it may take a few days. The police can also then likely provide you with his full name and likely address.
They may also be able to provide other suggestions that are appropriate to your local community (different communities have different resources).
I'd also suggest that you change your phone number - and do not leave a forwarding number. You can notify your friends, family, employer, etc. of the new number after you get it.
Keep a positive attitude... and if nothing else works... just ignore him.
Remember to Love, Laugh, and Live Life....
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They dont have an adress. They live in thier car.
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I understand. You can still get a restraining order in most countries.
Another option is that if you get a little $ ahead... move elsewhere (only don't make it obvious). I have done several moves where all I took with me was an overnight travel bag... (as if I'm visiting a friend or going on a business trip) and returned later (at different times) to recover more of my stuff. No massive move to catch their attention.
The several times I did it I could afford to pay a few weeks of double rent - and once a month.
You'll get through this.
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I cant move.
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I have faith that in the future you will be doing better - and will be able to move.
As long as he is not a direct physical threat you have time to find a future solution.
I wish you the best...