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i have been having dreams about fingering my boyfriends butt, and while we have sex and when i give him oral, even when we are just laying together i constantly think about doing it. i love when he fingers and licks my ass. but every time i bring it up to him he tells me its not going to happen but i still want to try, thinking about it is such a turn on... help ?
Make a comprimise. Let him do some fantasy to you that he's always wanted in exchange for you getting to do yours. A mans prostate is up there and it's actually a common thing. Couples do that all the time. Btw's Prostate locating. about the 2nd knuckle up the asshole, and you curl your finger upwards when he's on his back lol I took a coarse on human anatomy, I know lots of stuff xD Good luck! Get him to look up on google about that stuff. It's so normal.
Just let it go. Maybe casually (and maybe jokingly) bring it up somehow, but that's it; don't try to persuade him to do it if he doesn't want to.
My girlfriend used to not want to touch my anal region, but one night during foreplay, she started fingering me there and it felt amazing. She even took out her vibrator and started penetrating me with it. The sex was incredible that night; I had one of the best orgasms I've ever had.
Just give him time and don't insist for him to do it. He may one day want you to do that to him, but let him choose on his own will. Respect his choice.
it's sad because you have a homophobe on your hands. men have a wealth of nerve endings around the butt hole and nothing feels better than a pretty lady that understands how to please her man in that way. your man is missing out.
you could try rubbing his balls while telling him what a man he is and then let your hand stray a bit to his butt hole.
Then tell him what a stud he is and that you worship every little bit of him.
But.... it is an uphill battle for you. if he can't tell the difference between a hot lady all up his butt and some fear of being a fag then it might not work