lezkiss, I think you need to accept that gay is NOT the norm.
Most individuals are heterosexuals.
For this reason you NEED to go to THAT only club, or if there are two then go to both.
Plus the Internet is chockers full of sites for meeting anyone with any preference or gender.
All (hetro) men fully respect you like women. That's fully agreed.
Men tend to go to clubs, and they socialize at sporting clubs etc and meet friends of friends and they even use the Internet (I don't know why but I just can't seem to use the Internet chat sites myself, I 'personally' don't trust them, although I HEAR of all these wonderful relationships of people getting together on it)
Anyway, since you are trying to locate the minority group of individuals and THEN trying to find someone in that minority who turns you on and is friendly to you. I suspect it would be extremely difficult.
Go back to THAT club. I'm sure new people also go there all the time too, until they find someone and slowly avoid the area.
Also you MUST know the 'type' you're interested in?
What turns you on? What exactly do you want? Because a 'friend' does NOT need to be gay/les or Bi. Even straight guys (hello) can be your friend :)
dad thanks for your advice.i understant what the difficulties are.apart from that i usually dont use the internet for creating friendships.i ve tried but with no results.as far as tha bars are concerned,the majority of people have friends around them...i mean i cant go alone and waiting for someone to talk to me...can i?its nice to have lots of friends gay straight bi etc...personally i dont have many friends and i live in an environment that is extremely difficult for others to accept your sexual identity...i have many issues to solve...lol lol..thank you anyway...
I don't think you really go alone either (debatable I'm sure)
You will need to find someone (even a straight person) to accompany you there. If presently you are alone in that regard, then it comes down to your interests. ie If you like netball, join a netball team. If you like shopping, I'm pretty sure most cities have those 'shopping' bus tours. I mean even a tupperware party!
It is hard starting from scratch. ie Zero friends or family?
Just talk with anyone. It may feel a bit crazy at times but its not. When I've been at the shops and someone says, wow its a hot day today (or any passing comment) you could reply yes rather be out partying but I'm new to town and without many friends yet (or something similar). You'll be amazed howmnany people will want to help you.
Its about socializing and confidence. We all just DO IT. Even in fear!
is it normal i dont know how to talk to a lesbian?
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lezkiss, I think you need to accept that gay is NOT the norm.
Most individuals are heterosexuals.
For this reason you NEED to go to THAT only club, or if there are two then go to both.
Plus the Internet is chockers full of sites for meeting anyone with any preference or gender.
All (hetro) men fully respect you like women. That's fully agreed.
Men tend to go to clubs, and they socialize at sporting clubs etc and meet friends of friends and they even use the Internet (I don't know why but I just can't seem to use the Internet chat sites myself, I 'personally' don't trust them, although I HEAR of all these wonderful relationships of people getting together on it)
Anyway, since you are trying to locate the minority group of individuals and THEN trying to find someone in that minority who turns you on and is friendly to you. I suspect it would be extremely difficult.
Go back to THAT club. I'm sure new people also go there all the time too, until they find someone and slowly avoid the area.
Also you MUST know the 'type' you're interested in?
What turns you on? What exactly do you want? Because a 'friend' does NOT need to be gay/les or Bi. Even straight guys (hello) can be your friend :)
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I agree with everything dad says.
dad thanks for your advice.i understant what the difficulties are.apart from that i usually dont use the internet for creating friendships.i ve tried but with no results.as far as tha bars are concerned,the majority of people have friends around them...i mean i cant go alone and waiting for someone to talk to me...can i?its nice to have lots of friends gay straight bi etc...personally i dont have many friends and i live in an environment that is extremely difficult for others to accept your sexual identity...i have many issues to solve...lol lol..thank you anyway...
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I don't think you really go alone either (debatable I'm sure)
You will need to find someone (even a straight person) to accompany you there. If presently you are alone in that regard, then it comes down to your interests. ie If you like netball, join a netball team. If you like shopping, I'm pretty sure most cities have those 'shopping' bus tours. I mean even a tupperware party!
It is hard starting from scratch. ie Zero friends or family?
Just talk with anyone. It may feel a bit crazy at times but its not. When I've been at the shops and someone says, wow its a hot day today (or any passing comment) you could reply yes rather be out partying but I'm new to town and without many friends yet (or something similar). You'll be amazed howmnany people will want to help you.
Its about socializing and confidence. We all just DO IT. Even in fear!